I been going out with my girl for a year but shes too girly all she talks about is going shopping, about pink and ""the Hills" when we go out with my friends shes just quiet so my friends think shes stuck up, but when is just me in her we always have a good time i dont know what to do should i leave her?
2007-02-23 04:29:08 · 20 answers · asked by Los 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she feels secure around u and she probably thinks that u like the way she acts and dresses. just tell how u would like her to dress and act.
dont dump her yet, if u really think she is hopeless say byby.
2007-02-23 04:53:59 · answer #1 · answered by the.journey.is.the.reward. C.P. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason that you liked her enough to be with her for a year. What makes her too girly, shopping waering pink and watching the hills is what most girls are doing and watching. And her being quiet around your friends maybe she really doesn't ahve that much in commom with them so she really doesn't know what to say or maybe she's just a quiet person. I think your more worried about what your friends are thinking,then how your really feeling. I don't think you should leave her for those things, but if your feelings changed about her then you should.
2007-02-23 04:37:08 · answer #2 · answered by dreamangel1102002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't leave someone that you care about because of what your friends think! Maybe she doesn't feel included when she's with your friends and that's why she hasn't opened up yet. When you're around your friends make sure you include her in your conversations and whatever else you're doing and that they include her too. Maybe alcohol will help them to connect too. I'm not encouraging underage drinking, but if you already drink then maybe that's how to get her to open up! I'm shy and all of my boyfriends friends thought I was boring. I didn't even really start to warm up to some of them until after a year and a half. So just give her time and if you love her don't break up with her just because of your friends.
2007-02-23 04:48:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is who she is, you can't change her.....and why would you want to? You have to either accept her for who she is or choose to move on. So what if your friends don't like her, it's not their girlfriend. Some people are just like that, quiet and shy around alot of people. You have been with her for a year, and you are just now having these doubts? You should have thought about all of this a long time ago. You are being so unfair to her.
2007-02-23 04:49:19 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the same way...I would love to go out and shop rather than go out with a bunch of people....Dump her...I think thats a bit too harsh...maybe talk to her and ask her why she is so quiet around your friends...I am very shy around people I dont know but I warm up fast...maybe she just has a problemopeneing herself to other people.
2007-02-23 04:33:39 · answer #5 · answered by Soon2BMrsCarlson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
adult adult males at the instant are not tender talking approximately thoughts so as that they get tongue tied and apprehensive. Especcially if there is a lot at stake . the extra he likes you the extra apprehensive hes in all risk to be. if hes cool as a cucumber then you quite could be basically a time filler that he will ditch for the subsequent skirt he sees. BE FLATTERED and take the stress of with the aid of giving him some real advantageous comments in case you like him. a kiss on the cheek maybe. no longer something too heavy yet inspire self belief in him a approach or the different.
2016-11-25 02:01:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. don't leave her for that. just tell her to loosen up a bit. some people are not comfortable around people they really don't know. try talking to her to find out why she acts that way. my 20 year old brother is having the same problem right now.
2007-02-23 04:34:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's with you, not your friends. would you rather she gets close to your friends til flirting with them or like how it is now? girls are shy. if you have a great time with her, why bother what your friends think of her. if you're bored with the conversations you both usually have, then tell her. or leave her then. but it's unfair to leave her just because she doesn't click with your friends.
2007-02-23 05:01:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on, isn't that the reason you liked her in the first place. She's shy, that's a good thing. You want your friends to tell you who to date and not date?
2007-02-23 04:44:22 · answer #9 · answered by Black 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are guys, and chicks are chicks !!!, if i were you i would be happy that my girl is more comfortable around me than when she is around my friends. that's allot better than her being too comfortable with your friends (if you know what i mean), i like too keep my relationship separate from my partying with the boys, I would punch my friend in the mouth if he told me my girl was stuck up, but i would not except my girl judging my friends either. mixing your friends and relationships will cause you stress !!!
2007-02-23 04:46:25 · answer #10 · answered by sideburntt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋