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ok im the kind of person who always has her cell on 24/7 if anyone needs to call for any reason. I always help and want to make a career out of it one day. But i got into a relationship with this guy and really like him. My best friend told me that she does not like him at all and i should re-think what im doin and not to have sex with him... (well i did have sex with him) But sometimes i feel like she needs me to be unhappy soo she can feel better about herself and talk to me about how happy she is... i always here about her and her boyfriend and what they do and all that stiff. Does that make me a bad friend i mean i would do anything for this girl and she would do the same but.... idn

2007-02-23 04:27:43 · 12 answers · asked by Im addicted to the memory of him 3 in Family & Relationships Friends

12 answers

I have this situation also. When you were single, you were more available to hear other peoples problems and they rely on that. Now that you have someone in your life these people don't like it and want to rain on your parade especially if they are not happy. Just be there for them when you can, but don't neglect your life. Explain that to your friend. If she is a true friend, she will understand if not you have to decide what is more important.

2007-02-23 04:35:19 · answer #1 · answered by fiveninebaby 2 · 0 0

Does your best friend not like this guy for a reason? If she's trying to protect you because she heard bad things about him, then maybe you should consider what she's saying. And if she dislikes him for no reason who cares! You're not being a bad friend in any way. If anything, she's being a bad friend (but only if she doesn't have a valid reason to be saying these things). She shouldn't be making your relationship her business. It's your relationship and what you do is your business. Maybe she's just jealous of you two. Even if she has a boyfriend there are probably some things within your relationship that she envys. Either way, just do what makes you happy and don't pay any attention to any of the bad things she has to say.

2007-02-23 04:38:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

There are a lot of people (your friend) out there that don't appreciate what they have or feel good about themselves if they don't have someone near them that is having problems or unhappy (you). It sounds as if you already understand this and accept her for what she is. You need to be happy for you and do stuff that makes you happy. Good luck and God Bless.

2007-02-23 04:32:48 · answer #3 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0 0

no that does not make you a bad friend i am going through almost the same thing, and the whole friend thing yeah
So yeah you need to do what makes you happy, and if what makes you happy isnt good by your friend then maybe you need to re-think the friendship and not the relationship

2007-02-23 04:32:07 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie R 1 · 0 0

If you want to make a living helping people with their issues you need to learn to deal with your own. How would you be a bad friend? You are happy so why does that make you a bad friend?

2007-02-23 04:52:38 · answer #5 · answered by Tim VP 3 · 0 0

If this guy makes you happy and is respecting you then you should stay with him. If he is rude to you or your friend (who I'm sure you love too) then maybe you shouldn't be. It comes down to if you keep your boyfriend will your friend still be your friend?

Sit down with your friend and ask her why she doesn't like your boyfriend. Then try to help her understand that you really like him and that you want to work their problem with each other out. You can set up a group date or double date so they can get to know each other better.

Good luck and keep us updated!

2007-02-23 05:37:31 · answer #6 · answered by rismonstar 2 · 0 0

NO IT DOESNT MAKE YOU BAD FRIEND..think wid your head n heart..if that guy of yours make you happy than be wid him....nothing else...but that doesnt mean you avoid everithing...

2007-02-23 04:34:57 · answer #7 · answered by ishk 2 · 0 0

It seems like you are a better friend to your girlfriend than she is to you. You can't live your life just to please her all the time.

2007-02-23 04:34:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

if she is really your friend she would be happy for u

2007-02-23 04:34:26 · answer #9 · answered by Alex 1 · 0 0

if you are happy than forget what your friend says...if she is truly your friend she will support you no matter what!!!

2007-02-23 04:31:02 · answer #10 · answered by Soon2BMrsCarlson 3 · 0 0

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