i need your help because i'm dating two guys at the same time and i love both of them but please help me.....:-(
2007-02-23 04:22:40 · 41 answers · asked by Jessica B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Depends on how serious it is. This is only acceptable if it is casual dating, serious dating needs to be one only, then it is time to make a choice and let the other one down easy in case you need to come crawling back.
2007-02-23 04:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop dating one of them! 1) That's slutty 2) It's just messed up. If you really love someone, then you would want to only be with that person. You must have more feelings for one guy than the other so just break it off with the one that you don't feel as much for. If you keep dating them both, it won't lead to anything good. Eventually they'll find out and you'll end up alone and obviously you can't have both of them in the end.
2007-02-23 04:30:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not married or engaged to either or any so you do what you like. Men have much more than 2 women at one time and women can too. As for your emotional attachment if you want to have the freedom to "date" then don't get involved like that. Go out with someone a couple of times then take a break for a few and then see them again if you choose. No drama. No problems. No emotional conflict.
2007-02-23 04:30:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Dating two guys at the same time will hurt them and you. It isn't fair to them.. you should date one or the other, but not both. I doubt that your two boyfriends know that you are dating the other, or if they are ok with that they have issues.
2007-02-23 05:42:00 · answer #4 · answered by girlshadow212 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No , it is not cheating for you have every right to date whomever you choose to ! You are under no moral obligation to commit yourself to a relationship that you do not desire to do so or be in . If one of your dates is not part of the solution then they become part of the problem ; your only moral obligation is one in which the two of you have entered into a mutual relationship in which it is understood by both persons that there IS indeed a relationship . Be you and not what another wants you to be - be your own person ! I hope this was of some benefit to you . Happy & safe holidays :0)
2016-05-24 02:36:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just as long as your not having sex with both of em and the other ones its not serious. They should both know about each other or its cheating, you cant be in a serious relationship and see two people thats wrong! Unless One of em is just a friend and hes a friend of your boyfriend too...You can date two guys if the dating is only on like level one for ex. not even kissed, just getting to know each other.
2007-02-23 04:29:22 · answer #6 · answered by H G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can do dating with two guys at same time..feel attraction for two at same time but cant fall in love with two at same time
2007-02-23 04:30:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Why would you! I think you should dump the your second guy and stay with your first guy. You would be hurting them both if you stayed this way and then what are you going to have!?! No guy to date because most likely they would both leave you. Also that could ruin your reputation to everyone, and you'd make your life even more difficult. That's my opinion
2007-02-23 05:19:28 · answer #8 · answered by Linzerella*Cinderella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love them both, you wouldn't be dating them both. Do you know how disrespectful that is to the guys you are dating? Think of how hurt they would be when they find out. YOU ARE CHEATING ON BOTH OF THEM. I think you need to reavaluate your relationships, and figure out who you want to date, and dump the poor other guy for his own good.
2007-02-23 04:27:55 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can date two guys if it is casual and mutual.
If you love them both you've got to make a decision quickly. All three of you will end up hurting if you drag it out. You might even lose both of them.
2007-02-23 04:26:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋