Even if it was like 4 years ago or in high school? YES I'm happily married and have an amazing little girl but sometimes I find myself thinking about a past relationship. Just stuff on tv reminds me, lookalikes remind me. it's only one guy and im not like this about any other past relationships! i just felt like we could've been more but i was too shy then. I'm more than content now. I don't fantasize....just kind of caught in thought sometimes.
2007-02-23 04:21:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
And no we don't talk anymore or keep in contact.
2007-02-23 04:22:23 · update #1
and my husbad and i have only been with each other
2007-02-23 04:28:37 · update #2
Yes, of course. Married women don't just forget about a part of their past, and memories of the past pop up all the time. Besidse, I think that the memories of this guy are connected to your feelings toward your shyness. Any regrets of yours that are related to shyness might be manifesting as this guy. Basically, the memory of him just represents all the things that your shyness held you back from.
2007-02-23 04:28:32 · answer #1 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is natural especially if the past relationship lasted for a while or was a firtst love. I know that I think about my ex from time to time. I have the double whammy of it being my first love and it having gone on for almost 4 years. It ended as a result of distance seperating us, I went away to college. I found someone else and I married, have two wonderful kids but I remember one time nearly 6 years after it was over seeing them somewhere and having my heart skip a beat. I became flush all over and began to sweat and we never even spoke. I have seen them since then and was even able to put two words together without fawning excessively, but it still impacts me to some degree.
2007-02-23 05:20:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably thinking of you - thoughts travel mysteriously enough. Yea, forget him. Your husband and daughter are your everything so use that energy to express your gratitude to your husband (from the heart). Those loving thoughts will surprisingly emit to your husband and he will feel loved by you and it will show in his behavior and speech towards you. Your subconscious responds to our surface conscious mind so make sure you save all those loving thoughts for you husband. That way you are doing your part as a good wife and mother. The more you dwell on ur ex the more of a wedge you create in your own marriage. Best wishes!
2007-02-23 05:24:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think of my first love whom I met in high school. We became engaged after 3 years of dating. Two years later, I had a traumatic nearly fatal auto accident. I felt I was given a second chance and told him I wanted to date other guys and that I wasn't ready for marriage. He was crushed but moved on and eventually, married another woman.
I love my husband but will admit, I am not very happy. No man has ever been as good to me or made me as happy as my high school sweetheart.
2007-02-23 04:43:14 · answer #4 · answered by Teddy Bear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been there and done that and no just because you think of him from time to time it is nothing wrong with that it was probably one of the happy times you had in life and you like thinking of it i am sure there are things that remind you of your husband as well that makes you think of him even though you live together memories are just that and some put smiles on our faces and others put fear in our heart the key is not read more into it you sound like you have a good life and i am sure all your memories and past feelings and loves helped you to achieve that good luck
2007-02-23 04:37:32 · answer #5 · answered by HOT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sometimes think about if I would of stayed with my ex how we would be. And for some reason I see only happy things but know that it would hell. Thats Why I left him in the first place. I have actually ran into him a couple of times with my husband, talk about heart beating fast.
2007-02-23 04:46:28 · answer #6 · answered by ERICKSMAMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still think about my first love. I'm in a happily committed relationship, and have had no contact with the old bf in years. But still, I do think of him and wonder where he is now. It's normal, don't worry.
2007-02-23 04:31:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I call that your "what if". I think everyone has one. Someone from their past that they still think about. What if things would have been different or what if this or that wouldn't have happened. I know I still have one and so does my sister and bestfriend. Mine goes back 10 yrs. What's crazy is I finally saw him again a few months ago. Mmmm.
2007-02-23 04:31:14 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you actually MISS the person or just happen to think about them sometimes? I have fun memories with everybody I've been with, so of course if I see something that reminds me of that I think of them. But I dont actually miss them and I'd never leave my husband for them. So if you can never picture yourself leaving your husband for the person, its okay to think about them from time to time. Just not obsessively miss them or want to be with them. Hope that makes sense, just my opinion! :)
2007-02-23 04:41:10 · answer #9 · answered by rantfactory 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I occasionally think about past loves. I think about WHY he is is an ex and how lucky I am to have found my way out of a crappy relationship.
2007-02-23 04:28:00 · answer #10 · answered by katydid 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋