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I have seen some times people fall in love with the one whom they
used to hate or dislike (due to some reason) earlier.
It happens though rarely.
Is it true that when people are in true love are they able to accept
the one they love despite all their faults.
I mean can they accept the one whom they love with all their
weakness & faults.

(weakness & faults of the person whom they love).

2007-02-23 03:50:27 · 14 answers · asked by ♪♥*B.B.K*♥♪ 7 in Entertainment & Music Polls & Surveys

14 answers

hii !!
not just in love but in life in general i think we ought to accept people the way they are.we should accept people's shortcomings as no one is perfect,not even we ourselves.that's the mark of a broad-minded person,what say?modernity is not about the clothes we wear but the way we think & if we can think more considerately of people & be a little less critical of them,i should say we're doing fine as modern beings!!
in love...........well.............that is what love is all about..............we don't look for faults in our beloved or other loved ones...........we just love them unconditionally !!love prevents us from being overtly judgemental....over-critical ;we love our loved ones irrespective of their faults:that's human psychology !!
as for loving someone we formerly hated,well that's an interesting thing to happen.................probably hating that person becomes such a habit that the hatred turns favourable after a point giving birth to affection..getting to know the person better may also help the cause..!!well every human has a ''shadow'' and Psychology as a discipline defines it as that side of us which we choose to hide & interestingly we condemn those traits in others which we have in ourselves.so formerly we may hate a person for possessing a particular trait but as we grow to realize that we have it in ourselves as well,we realize how foolish we were and then hatred sublimes into thin air..!!




cheers & god bless:-)

2007-02-23 14:33:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6 0

By psychology Most people hate the one who are like their own nature. And at a point they start liking each other for the common characters they possess. And thus they fall in love. They start adjusting as true love always does.

2007-02-23 13:58:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

Love and Sex are entirely independent, so the real question would be how well you know the person before having sex. Love is something that develops over time, a feeling of caring for the other person. Sex is a physical act which can occur at any time, and does not require a relationship to have developed over time. You can have sex before you know someone that well, but grow to love that person afterward...or you can grow to love a person before you ever have sex with that person (in fact, you can love someone without ever having sex with them during your lifetime). Sex by itself will not make you love a person...but it can establish a bond between you which might develop into love.

2016-05-24 02:25:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You fall in love and over look all the faults for the time being. Later on you learn to live with them. Love is only blind during the honey moon phase.

2007-02-23 03:57:07 · answer #4 · answered by Diane G 6 · 3 0

Yes it does happen rarely. True love is a myth. If people love each other they will be able to accept their weakenesses, believe me, i have done that with my guy who isn't perfect.

2007-02-23 03:54:35 · answer #5 · answered by DARIA. - JOINED MAY 2006 7 · 2 0

I think U r right may be this happen because in my case I love to hate my enemies with greater and greater intense. I love to do that. So I really think U r right love can change ur mind either it is with some one or with any of ur task.

2007-02-23 16:08:34 · answer #6 · answered by AbuSaleh 3 · 0 0

Yes...it is true that you can accept each others faults and weaknesses...if you are truly in love, that stuff doesn't matter

2007-02-23 03:55:21 · answer #7 · answered by twnkltoez 3 · 3 0

Yes, that is when you know it IS love and not infatuation. We all have faults, and when you meet someone who openly accepts them and you do theirs, it IS love.

2007-02-23 03:54:20 · answer #8 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 2 0

Every thing will happen in Love..even war!

2007-02-24 01:14:28 · answer #9 · answered by Electric 7 · 0 0

Yes when you are inLOVE with the ONE you except all the bad with the good.

2007-02-23 03:55:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3 0

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