if something terrible happens in our life which we have never expected,?

Question

then.. should we blame others who have done wrong to us, or should we blame God, or should we accept it as our fate,,,

Answer 1

we should accpt the things we can't change and pray for the courage to change those we can

Answer 2

For crying out loud, take some responsibility! Stop using scapegoats. If it's your fault then take the damn blame! God cares about you and would never hurt you, deal with it! If it's someone's fault you know about, then work with the person to make it right. And if you don't know where to put the blame, if the thing just happened without explanation then don't automatically blame God! If you're gonna blame someone you can't see blame satan. He's the root of all problems somewher along the line.

Answer 3

It comes in phases. First you go into shock, then you associate the blame on the person you deem responsible, then you decide to blame God, and eventually, you learn to accept it as fate. I know, this happened to my school no more than a week ago after two very popular girls were murdered in our town.

Answer 4

It is very natural to blame other factors, god, luck, other individuals in your life.....which is just a momentary reaction from your side. But the logic (of the unexpected situation, and I assume you are talking of an unexpected ''bad'' situation) would be to really sit and think where you went wrong. No matter how perfect you may have been, you could just identify, slowly, with a clear head on the ''where'' it came from...Sometimes, you seem to have done everything right, but then you have no explanation to the reasons on why it happened, and thats when we can only say, its ''destiny''..or luck...perhaps it happened to show you yet another lesson in life...a bitter one, but something wisely learnt from, something thats added one extra page in your life.....andmove on...Its tough to talk philosophy when your experiencing the real ''bottoms''....but then, we do have to move on, dont we ??? To the next experiences waiting for us ??

Answer 5

Interesting question,
When something wonderful happens in your life do you thank the ones who have done right to you and God? If not, then blaming them for the bad turns doesn't seem appropriate does it?

Answer 6

Blaming ANYONE is usually a waste of time and fixes nothing.

What you should do is fix the things you have control over, and help those people affected by this thing as much as you can.

After you've done what you can to help the situation, then you have the luxury of deciding who you want to blame.

Answer 7

I wish I could tell you a way to be safe from these traumas, but, alas, I cannot. Life is an ongoing learning experience in which we edit the bad and embrace the good. Since you are already asking these kind of questions, you're going to be okay.

Answer 8

Accept it as our fate or karma. Every thing goes on and on in 'precision' 'pattern' and 'regularity' and no one can escape from this Divine Designs that is what you call fate or you what you learn from the english oldies song "Que sera sera whatever will be will be" (Artist: Doris Day)

Answer 9

fate..........coz it does not take u down as u know that it was not ur fault and so it gives u courage to face the things ..when u blame yourself u tend to get depressed and everything gets messed up.........so its better to put it on fate and accept it

Answer 10

Blame our bad luck

Answer 11

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