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I went to a local Bar/restaurant in Pittsford, NY. I was having wine and ordered soup through my waitresses. While waiting I asked my waitress to put bubble on two ladies in the bar. While they were in process of accepting my offer, the owner of restaurant came and asked me to leave.

Then I asked why? He said, " I am making ladies in restaurant uncomfortable." I insisted, " " Waitress is talking right now to them ". I did not even approach them. They are in process of considering my offer" He insisted that I should leave immidiately. In the meantime waitress brought soup.

I said to him, " This is not fair". His response was " Life is not fair.' I told him That I was going to complain police. His response was, I know them all; and go ahead. But step out of his facility.

So, frusured, I went out and from curb, I call 911. two officers came and asked me " What happened". I told him. Then He went inside and interview few people.

2007-02-23 03:32:07 · 10 answers · asked by ? 1 in Politics & Government Law & Ethics

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This is more a matter for a lawyer, not the police. While I do agree that it's B.S. that you were asked to leave, I don't think it warrants a call to 911.

2007-02-23 03:37:09 · answer #1 · answered by karen p 3 · 1 1

I don't believe your civil rights were violated...perhaps your ego, a bit. Every store owner has the right to deny service to any patron (you, in this case). Maybe you have a manner about you that is kind of rough that people misinterpret? Perhaps the owner thought you were inebriated and wanted you to leave before "trouble" started?
Good for you that you were brave enough to ask some ladies too join you...chose a different spot next time and watch your mannerisms (self-evaluation) to see what may be the trouble. Don't be disrespectful or use vulgar language...behave....and you will most likely have a better night next time. Good luck to you in this department.

2007-02-23 03:42:07 · answer #2 · answered by longleggedfirecracker 3 · 0 0

So just how do you figure your "civil rights" have been violated? And how do you know that the ladies were "in the process of accepting" your offer? Did they approach you after you were kicked out, or is this just an assumption on your part?

From what you've said here, you don't have a leg to stand on. The manager of the restaurant received a complaint about you from other patrons in his establishment, and was fully within his rights to ask you to leave. He did not deny you service based on your sex, skin color, or religion, so I'm really curious to hear just what makes you think your "civil rights" were violated. You asked him why he was telling you to leave, and he told you. No laws broken there, skippy.

Like I said, you don't have a leg to stand on.

2007-02-23 03:38:43 · answer #3 · answered by Team Chief 5 · 6 0

1) Your call to 911 was a crime, there was no emergency.

2) Your civil rights do not include "the right to eat anywhere I choose".

3) The owner can ask anyone to leave for any reason at any time. It's his place, he makes the call.

4) Don't like it? You have a civil case against him at best, certainly no crime was committed by him, only by you with your phony 911 emergency call.

5) I HOPE YOU DIDN"T PAY FOR ANYTHING.
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2007-02-23 03:39:49 · answer #4 · answered by slipknotraver 4 · 2 0

had you not left when asked you would have been trespassing in a private establishment. you are now on the cops list of annoying people. next time expect a citation for the 911 call exactly how was your right to assemble on the public sidewalk in front of the restraint a violation of your first amendment right.?

2007-02-23 04:14:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

First of all, where did you learn to write? You are missing nouns, proper endings on words, etc. and it was hard for me to even understand what you are asking. But onto your question; how do you know the ladies were actually thinking about your offer? For all you know, they were bothered by your request and someone managed to let the manager know. Someone had to have said something to him for him to know to talk to you. So someone was made to feel uncomfortable.
Bottom line, you were in an eatry, not a club and so your behavior was inappropriate. The manager was perfectly within his rights to ask you to leave. Get over it.

2007-02-23 03:44:16 · answer #6 · answered by musicdiva24 2 · 3 1

Sounds to me as if you really have a problem guy.

Civil Rights, Shix.. Sounds as if you are just hunting for trouble.

Do not pester people in public places. That is what you are doing.

You might have made the people very uncomfortable by your offer. You are the one that should be getting sued.

2007-02-23 03:47:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

Dear Sir : Do you mean to tell me that I served three tours of Combat Duty in the Middle East; watched my friends and sloggers under my watch die, sometimes in agony, have spent 100s of hours listening to men and women, who are the personification of the word Courage: Did all of that just to hear you Whine about being chucked out of a eatery for annoying a group of waitresses. GROW UP, SON ! PJ McCaine USMC RT PH(3) SS BS(V) NDSM MDSM

2007-02-23 03:58:47 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 2 1

Dude move on, he's got every right to ask you to leave, and he doesn't need a reason!

2007-02-23 03:43:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

Sorry, no recourse.

A private establishment can refuse service.

2007-02-23 03:39:49 · answer #10 · answered by Time to Shrug, Atlas 6 · 6 0

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