How do I get my wife to tie me up?

Question

And don't say ask her, that never works.

Li, if you're into tying me up please marry me!!!

My wife does respond occasionally, what I am looking for are creative ideas. Sunday I had to handcuff myself after I tied a bathrobe sash like a leash to my equipment and walk up to her to get her the message, she did get it after that though.

Answer 1

i cant believe she has never wanted to... my husband was weird about it at first when we first met...but i got convinced him, and now it involves knives and pain, so.... she will get there, you just have to try and convince her, maybe tie her up first, go buy her a whip, and some black ribbon to tie you with... maybe a sleeping mask for your face so you cant see what she is doing to you, and you feel more comfortable.... maybe she just doesnt know was dominating involves.. have her message me.

Answer 2

First of all you have to know you guys are open enough with your sexuality to try new things. U can't just say "Hey honey, I got some handcuffs from a gag store. U wanna try them?"
The point is to make the approach non-threatening and to seem like a good and positive thing. If she grew up conservative (or u both did) this can be tricky but it all comes down to how you lay the cards on the table.
So...
#1) Wait for a time when she is relaxed, in a good mood, and fully listening to you.
#2) Let her know that you have been doing some thinking and that u absolutely love your current sex life, BUT that as time has gone on, you are getting a bit curious to try some new ideas. Let her know you are not making complaint that your current sex is boring, but that you read it is healthy to try new things in sex such as new positions or even fantasies, like being tied up. Wait for her reaction. If she is gagging already and giving you an ugly look, than she may not be ready at all
#3) BUT if she seems curious to hear more, let her know you are open to trying new things and would like to know how she feels about playong with fantasies, like bein tied up or doing the tying. If she thinks it would be okay or fun, then let her know the next time u guys have sex (after your tie-up session) that you will gladly do any request she might have.
You never know. I am a woman and I fantasized about being a naughty school girl. I asked my bf to talk dirty to me in bed and he was more than willing. DON'T MAKE ASSUMPTONS ABOUT WHAT SHE WILL THINK.
Sex should be a place of exploring and growth. I would get bored too if my bf never wanted to try new stuff.
GOOD LUCK!!!

Answer 3

Well...if you've already expressed an interest to her, and she's not down with it...then there is no way to get her to take part in this act.
Bondage is not mainstream pleasure.
Sounds like you need to make a decision....
Keep this a fantasy that never gets acted upon, or find someone who's into this.
And for all of you who will give me thumbs down, and e-mail me
to let me know that I'm advocating adultry...
Understand that I'm no homewrecker...
I'm all about making marriages work, it's just that sometimes people have different needs than their spouce, and sometimes being able to have your needs met, will then allow for a marriage to resume it's course and not end due to incompatibility issues.
Good luck.

Answer 4

Out of 40 questions you've posted, 30 were about bondage, and they were all nearly identicle. You've taken it beyond an "interest" and into an "obsession". This is something you should've worked out with your wife before you got married. When you say "Don't say 'ask her', that never works." You're saying you don't have communication or trust in your relationship. If you keep asking & she keeps saying no, there's a bigger issue going on that needs to be resolved before anything else works.

Answer 5

that an easy quetsion! im hard to get like yor wife and all ma boyfriend does is run a bath with rose petals and say it guna be a romantic bath then he kisses me in the bath and breaths fast and deeply that gets me turned on then he guves me the propa dirty talk and then i grab handcuffs and then you can guess what happens! it really depends on what yor wifes like she may not be into all that kinky stuff!! email me at [e-mail]

Answer 6

The one and effective way doing it is to RAPE YOUR WIFE...

I once read an article on how to get absolute pleasure doing it the way a couple would love it,,,, and RAPE was the SOLUTION to the writer...

Now...once you are in that CRAZY situation....Spell it out, loud and crystal clear that you wish her to tie you up in return to what you are doing to her...No better opportunity...

Don't ask me how to rape your own wife, but I happen to have done it once, and we both ENJOYED THE HELL OF IT...She wasn't ready nor was she prepared, and I had to enforce it with all it took me to doing it....Don't get hesitant on TEARING HER CLOTHES APART....It is one Major part of the joy..!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

She scratched me on the back like never before...and I loved it..

I even once saw a movie where the husband ties up his wife, lights up a candle and as it starts melting, he drips it drop by drop over her body CHEST TO TOE....and you will not believe how wild they both became....

I tried it myself, and it was really OUT OF THIS WORLD....

This is nothing like being a sadist....please don't get me wrong... You still need to try it to prove it to yourself....

Good luck body....

Answer 7

hehe my husband likes your second line hehe...


Ummm how about trying to talk to her... I'm assuming by this you're curious about BDSM or at least part of it.... Talk to her, ask her about her thoughts on it... tell her you've had some curiosities and you'd like to try it out with her because you feel safe with her and FYI: you should always try anything like that with somebody you trust and set up a "safe word" depending on what you do... Safe word will signify you've had enough...


Good luck and happy playing *wink wink*

Answer 8

well you could try to tie your self to the bed have some rose pedals around you and then call her into the room that may send a message to her brain that you like to be kinky.

Answer 9

Tell her that if you are tied up, she can go out.

If she isn't into bondage, she won't ever be into bondage. Give it up! Find a new hobby.

Answer 10

tell her you want toplay a little game or if that dont work go and hit on some girl outside her every time you step outside then she'll tie your butt up