I accidentally left my diary at my friends house one night when I was trying to call my new boyfriend. It just so happens that my friend has one exactly like mine. Her husband saw my diary and thought it was hers.
He actually read what I wrote in it about my man. He assumed that his wife was pretending to be me and got all mad and called my man's house and threatened him.
He even tore the pages out and destroyed them. WHAT RIGHT DID HE HAVE TO DO THIS. He says I have no right to be mad about this. He did what any man would do. He refuses to admit he was wrong. Should he have to apologize and replace the pages and the pictures he tore up and destroyed?
2007-02-23 03:30:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am not asking him to replace the diary pages. I am asking him to replace the pictures. And it was in my bag cause I had spent the night with my sister the previous night and taken it with me so that I could make that night's entry.
2007-02-23 05:02:16 · update #1
I didn't know it fell out of my bag until later on that night. So stop judging me.
2007-02-23 05:03:14 · update #2
Your fault. You left it there. You owe he and the wife an apology.
2007-02-23 03:35:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This just goes to show how one who doesn't take responsibility for ones own mess can make a bunch of trouble for everyone else. First of all, this wouldn't have happened had you not left your diary at your married friends home. So in essence, this started because of your carelessness. Now, move this along, he really shouldn't have read the diary either, leading to the second faux pau, in which he read what was not his own, leading to an assumption that was incorrect. He should have talked to his wife before calling anyone, like "Whats this?" and it would have ended before it got started. As to tearing out the pages and destroying them, how can he replace them? Whats done is done. Not any man would have done that, some would have saved them for the impending divorce, but whatever. You should put a period on this one and move on my dear. If you really treasured your diary, you would have taken it with you. And if you are careless enough to cart that thing all over town and risk losing it somewhere or leaving it behind, then you have just learned a very valuable lesson about WHY that is so unwise. As to MAKING him do ANYTHING, I would ask for an apology and for him to replace the diary with a new one, but if he didn't I wouldn't lose ANY sleep or a friendship over it. I would say "Oh well" and move on to bigger and better things......like new stuff to write in my own diary that I keep at home from here on out. Good luck!
2007-02-23 11:43:51 · answer #2 · answered by Tippy's Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK fine so your diary was the same kind. He can't even recognize his wife's handwriting??
Something is wrong here. It doesn't make sense. Something you have reported as a "fact" here is not true, unless the guy is a total retard.
Here is the list of "facts" I have a problem with:
1. Why would you take your diary to someone's house?
2. Your handwriting looks so much like hers her husband can't tell the difference?
3. He is willing to believe his wife would fill an entire diary of fantasies about being her friend?
4. Instead of asking his wife, he threatened your boyfriend?
5. You had PICTURES in there? And he thought this was his wife in a "you" costume or something?
Something is really really wrong with your story.
2007-02-23 11:34:18 · answer #3 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
How would he go about replacing torn up pages, exactly?
Why does one carry around a diary in the first place? Isn't it supposed to be tucked under the mattress only to be found when sheets are being changed?
None of this makes any sense really. Why would your friend pretend to be you in her diary...if the purpose of the diary is to write things that can't necessarily be mentioned in the presence of others?
2007-02-23 11:36:33 · answer #4 · answered by Slimslimmer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yes he was wrong and is liable for the damages, but how can he replace pages that you wrote on and the pictures? What kind of as$hole reads his wife's diary anyway? He does owe you and your man an apology, plus he owes his wife an apology for snooping and jumping to conclusions.....Where's the trust and communication?
2007-02-23 11:35:53 · answer #5 · answered by Steel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why was it at your friend house in the first place... and you knew that both the book look almost the same but you know shouldn't be at your friend it should be staying at your home in your room...
My wife write diary but I know where it is and But I don't go in and open the book and read.. not my business even if my wife and I are married... It up to my wife if she want to show to me that fine.. if not..
But for that husband torn your book... I don't blame him at all... It shouldn't be at your friend house... plain and simple... If you know not going to effect them then fine but if you knew what going to happen but the point is that you left your diary at your friend house you said clearly " I accidentally left my diary at my friends house one night..." so there... If he show up your home in your bedroom then Yeah he is wrong for doing that. but it was at his home and saw it and read it so ...
Really you gonna have to tell him that you are sorry that made that all the mess if I didn't leave that diary book at his house.. so.. I am on his side.... Like it said all the time "Do not leave any Valueable out or anything we are not responsible for your lost, stolen, or damage" smiling
2007-02-23 11:38:43 · answer #6 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree w/ fucose. This guy is an idiot. Not just from the handwritng, but why would anyone pretend like that for 50 or 100 pages or so(i'm assuming there a multitude of pages written). And, from the content alone. Thought "oh, this ain't my wife-she's never been to France". I'm not calling Bullsh!t-what point in making this up? But, something is fishy in Denmark. This guy is about sharp as a french fry. It would be stupid to make something like this up. For you to make this up, you would have to be half as smart as the moron in your story....hang on...lolololol-Haaaaaa. lololololol Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.
---Daaaamn.
2007-02-23 11:40:21 · answer #7 · answered by lkrhtr70 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you 13? Why are you taking your diary to your friend's house. Good lordy!!
2007-02-23 11:37:57 · answer #8 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologizing and replacing what he destroyed would be the right thing for him do. Be glad you're not married to this jerk, he's SOS...Stuck on (his own) stupidity.
2007-02-23 11:35:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll get exactly what he deserves, and so will you. It really sounds like a big of miscommunication, and some pride.
Buy a new diary, tell him you forgive him (if you really do) and move on with life.
2007-02-23 11:35:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋