For a couple of years I have been attracted to females but i have a boyfriend and I love him very much..........what does that mean
please help me cause i am confused
2007-02-23 03:19:43 · 12 answers · asked by tray 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i know exactly wut u going through..i went through dat..wut u need to do i try expieriencing with a girl and u will know wut u want and wat u really feel...
2007-02-23 03:36:42 · answer #1 · answered by sexylezbian956 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would feel confused too. I think that those feelings entering into you would make anyone feel confused-- especially if they had a conscience.
But know this-- hormones make us go through a lot of things. Things that seem so real, so deep within ourselves that we cannot deny them. Is this something that has been going on for a while, or is it a passing fancy?
Whatever you do, do not ignore it if you continue to feel that way. Make descisions based upon what you value. Is it wrong for you to feel that way?
I would recommend you to a counsellor, hopefully a good one that will help you to understand what it is that you are going through. I found counsellors very helpful-- they were supposedly trained for this kind of thing after all.
Good luck. ( :
2007-02-23 11:27:55 · answer #2 · answered by Christian Sinner 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot more women than you think are bisexual. Just because you are attracted to females doesn't mean you can't have a normal relationship with your boyfriend. Have you said anything to him about it? Maybe you should. Most guys don't get mad about stuff like that.
2007-02-23 11:25:37 · answer #3 · answered by spasmolytic25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My peek confusing stage of my life was 16-18, at this time I had an on-again-off-again boyfriend who kept just breaking my Heart. I was so in love with him and didnt want to let him go because I felt that my feelings for the opposite gender were growing and Men just werent all that appealing to me Accept Him..He was everything I wanted..Smart..Handsome..Down to earth..inta his family..CLean Cut..for mee he had it alll...And I felt I would never have that again..as I knew deep down my preference was for women...A part of me was angry with him because I was fearful to ever meet a guy again that I would fall for... Sooo we broke up..I had my beautiful experience with women at 18 Im know 28 and have dated primarly women...He came around after but by then I was no longer in love with him...To answer you...You may be BI and its okay..The thing to do is to communicate with your partner that you have had thoughts about if you have a friendship with him...If it gets to the point where you cant take it anymore and you need to date women...take time from the relationship and do so..But be honest with him..AND IF HE truely loves you and you truely love him you too will work out..
2007-02-23 12:12:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone in the world has these feelings from time to time, just most people don't act on them. Seriously if you ask anyone and if they are strong enough to admit it, we all have had dreams about being with the same sex, or it may have just crossed someones mind one day, or you may have secret fantasies. The choice is yours though to divulge the secret or act on your instincts. No one can make you do anything you don't want to.
2007-02-23 11:27:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you probably dont feel comfortable around guys so your attracted to females, well girls just are like tht. girls like to make other girls jealous and such sort. doesnt mean ur a lesbo, maybe bi..
2007-02-23 11:25:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like who you want to like and love who you want to love...it doesnt matter....Your aloud to llike both sexes.....If you want to try it with a women then knock your socks off...you should always try both before make a long term decision...
2007-02-23 12:02:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're bisexual. If you're happy in a monogamous relationship, don't worry about your sexual feelings towards *anyone* else.
2007-02-23 11:37:40 · answer #8 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not confused your just follow your heart! and your heart don't pay any attention to what sex a human is!
just continue to follow your heart!
2007-02-23 11:23:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like both genders than you are probably bisexual?
2007-02-23 13:08:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably doesn't mean much of anything.
2007-02-23 11:24:33 · answer #11 · answered by Gaspode 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋