allright there is this guy at my church and everyone thinks hes like a rapist because he stares at the children all the time and I try to keep my siblings to stay away from him but hes drawing my little sister toward him by playing dolls with her but i try to keep her away! help.
2007-02-23 03:07:58 · 18 answers · asked by Hannah H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell you parents!!!!!!!!!!!!!! always stay together when walking anywhere- bathroom-outside ect... BE CAREFUL and if he comes near you SCREAM!
2007-02-23 03:46:38 · answer #1 · answered by divinemadness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is about gut instincts. If you sensing that he is up to no good and not just thinking it because of what other people are saying, then you need to talk to your parents right away and have this guys background checked out by local authorities. Your parents need to take charge of the situation and go to church with you or allow you to stop attending until this person is investigated. Tell your pastor, tell as many community people as you can of your discomfort and make sure your siblings do not go near him again
2007-02-23 11:15:30 · answer #2 · answered by inkinheaven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should be able to find out from the police if he went to jail on any rape charges so ask them and even if not doesnt mean he isnt a rapist keep your sister away from him do whatever tell her that youll play dolls or get her a new game or tell her if she stays away from him that you will get her a new doll or change churches the most important thing is to keepl your little sister safe!~
2007-02-23 11:34:53 · answer #3 · answered by Avaria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old is your little sister? maybe you could try explaining to her that she shouldnt be playing games with strangers. Why dont you guys clear the air out and ask around to make sure he really is a rapist if you find out he is than i suggest you have no caontact with him just to be on the safe side. if things ever get out of hand just call the police.
2007-02-23 11:12:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do your parents go to that church? let someone know. if people already suspect him...are they just waiting for something to happen or is another adult around him at all times? you are doing the right thing by trying to keep your sister away. you don'twant her to start getting comfortable around him...these creeps like to get on the child's good side and then persuade them away from everyone. just continue to keep a close eye on your sister and try to talk to your parents.
2007-02-23 11:13:05 · answer #5 · answered by KJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everytime she goes near him, u need to immediatly take her away from the situation, don't let her think he is a man to be trusted. Someone should look into this man's background and see just what type of man this really is before something happens.
2007-02-23 11:14:38 · answer #6 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello hannah if that is very true then you and your siblings should as far away from him as you can so he dont get a chance to hurt any of you at all keep your distance from that kind of person to be safe for sure report him to some one that can do something to keep him away from you and your family
2007-02-23 11:15:53 · answer #7 · answered by haroldgardner62002006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A grown man should stay away from children unless he has other children that are playing with them to supervise.
2007-02-23 11:12:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your sibs away! Talk to your parents and then talk to a police man if they try anything strange. Just stay away!
2007-02-23 11:14:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell himi that you are not comfortable around him and go away from him or simply stay away from him! if worse comes to worse you can tell the people in charge of the church and tel lthem that he's being suspisious. g/l!
2007-02-23 11:11:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are your parents? Tell them you are uncomfortable with the situation. It is their responsibility to sort it out. Not yours. Let them take control of the situation by telling them how uneasy you feel.
2007-02-23 11:12:23 · answer #11 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋