2007-02-23 02:51:15 · 39 answers · asked by Lynne 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Stay out of it.
Its not your place.
Ten bucks says she already knows anyway.
She may be giving him enough rope to hang himself.
Dont mess up her plan.
SSSHHHHHH.....mums the word.
2007-02-23 02:56:19 · answer #1 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes let her know but don't do it in such a way that she knows it was you.This could lead to problems at work or it could also cause problems later if you should leave.Send her a letter of what you know and be accurate as to what days and times he is with her.Don't ask to many questions at work because someone may get wise to you.Send the letter to her work place or put it under the wiper on her car.Which ever way you do it make sure that your name never comes up.
2007-02-23 03:05:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his wife has been married to him for any amount of time she'll already know. She just may not choose to either (a) accept it...(b) acknowledge it...or (c)maybe she has and just doesn't give a damn. However you're responsibilities are zilch..nada...nyet. Just what would it accomplish if say...you said something? Think the wife would thank you (or anyone for that matter) who dropped this on her? No one likes to be told that...especially from another woman. Nope...let it go my dear. There's no angle here to play. Telling her will only incur the wrath of her and then the wrath of him.
2007-02-23 03:03:39 · answer #3 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you talk to her and are close with her then...definately. If you don't ever speak to her and just know this as a rumor...don't say anything. It isn't your place to put their marraige to an end and you could lose your job.
She might already suspect these things but doesn't want to believe it or something. If you have no ides what their home life is like...you should stay out of it!
2007-02-23 03:03:05 · answer #4 · answered by KJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell if it is convictiong you but ask the if to keep it under wraps and not put you in it but if it coms out htat you were than so be it how do you fel about being there and that is going on or is it that you want to sleep with him too its all about how you feel about the whole thing but just be true to yourself count up the cost of doing it for you and only you. good luck
2007-02-23 03:12:51 · answer #5 · answered by imcomingup 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt it would do any good...most likely she suspects it anyway...and isn't ready or doesn't want to face it. Shame on those women, they are probably only doing it because he "the boss"...they need to get some self esteem and morals.
2007-02-23 02:56:55 · answer #6 · answered by sassy_395 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think alot of it has to do with the man. my husband has control over me i get many one or two times to ask him to do something. i ask my husband to do stuff for me like hey hunny please can u fix this for me. then leave it alone for a week. it has been three weeks and my pipes are still cloged. my husband says i nag at him all the time i asked him to show me when but he can never do it. i try not to boss my husband around cause i know it makes him unhappy and just pushes him away. but sorry my husband does need to step up and help me with our son. that is the only that gets to me. he wont help me out with him. do u know why that is since u are a guy. and yes it is his son.
2016-05-24 02:11:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somebody needs to tell her but not you.
Keep your ears open and try and find out when and where he plans to meet one of the girls at then email his wife with the date time and location. But I can almost guarantee you that she already knows.
2007-02-23 03:15:08 · answer #8 · answered by butterflybaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was your friend, I would say yes, but if not, unfortunatly u have to stay out of it. Jerks like that will get caught in the end. If employees know about it, she will soon too, but in the end at least u will still have your job.
2007-02-23 03:01:20 · answer #9 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course. You can't be fired for doing so either or else you could file a lawsuit and win millions against the company.
2007-02-25 00:51:46 · answer #10 · answered by math10sprof 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i would /would u want to know/ i know i would/ people get away with this to much and we let by keeping it to our selves or being the other women.no one should be with someone that is willing to hurt them that way.how will u feel if she gets aids or something when you could have just said something to stop it. do the right thing so many people don't but they say it start es with 1
2007-02-23 03:01:36 · answer #11 · answered by rue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋