Got very drunk n before i knew it we was alover each other..
Slept with him Sunday night and havent had a shift with him yet. What can i say to him????? Dont want to seem embarsed!! lol
2007-02-23 02:44:36 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell him you want to keep doing it again and again - enjoy x
2007-02-23 02:47:02 · answer #1 · answered by nina c 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are ok with it, then there is nothing really to be embarrassed about. You probably should give him a call before work to find out how he feels, and make sure he knows how YOU feel! Are you interested in a relationship? Are you definitely not? Make sure you both are on the same page. If you can do it outside of work, it will be less awkward for you both.
I hate to get a little preachy, but be careful next time! Drunken sex can be really risky. I don't intend that to be judgemental or anything. Just want you to be safe! Good luck!
2007-02-23 02:50:05 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...being drunk is one thing honey....good level headed thinking is another. Sleeping with someone doesn't always constitute that sexual relations took place either. So what really took place on Sunday would be important information here. Hopefully you weren't being taken advantage of un-ceremoniously. You sound as though you were ok with this kind of thing though. If you really do enjoy and like this particular guy?...well then have at him hun. If you're feeling guilty or embarrassed about the whole entire situation,...well then ask yourself why that is? Don't blame it on drunkenness though. You are responsible for your own behaviors no matter what took place seriously. The answers lye within yourself sweetie...no one else!
2007-02-23 03:35:26 · answer #3 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok now i know exactly how u feel. i slept with a co-worker as well. but mine was a bit different. one i lost my virginity and 2 we werent drunk. but i know how it feels to go to work the next time u see him and theres weird stares and no one talks well it seems like no one is talking but theres silence between the two of u. dont take it personal if it happens. he's probably just as embarrassed as u. just be urself. maybe something good will happen from this...that is if u want it. which from the looks of it u just might. pretend it didnt happen, and just be urself.
2007-02-23 03:14:46 · answer #4 · answered by ..::..Lovin him..::.. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what type of work setting you two are in everyday but... Just act normal. When you see him, give him a smile and say hello... Don't feel obligated to mention that night.... Seriously, act around him the way you would if you two didn't sleep together. .Just be kind and go about your day... He will persue you if he really wants to.
2007-02-23 02:49:37 · answer #5 · answered by mags2313 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, let him know you don't mean to put him on the spot but you'd like to go out with hime for a date and see where things go but if you don't like him, say nothing about it and if he brings it up, tell him you're sorry but you were drunk!
2007-02-23 04:00:45 · answer #6 · answered by brainbox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience I've found the best thing to do is acknowledge the incident but don't treat it as anything other than just a random sexual encounter...unless you want to take it further...
2007-02-26 07:29:49 · answer #7 · answered by joe l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't believe you people and your morals, you all should be ashamed of yourselves. Getting drunk and having a one night stand is just wrong, what happened to self respect??
2007-02-23 02:56:49 · answer #8 · answered by CaReBeAr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't be an issue if neither of you expects it to go further than sex. Not too much of a need to discuss it, I suppose. If there is uncomfortability, you may want to, but do it outside of work.
2007-02-23 02:49:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try your best to act as normal as you can. I have just been seeing somebody I worked with they cheated sadly I quite liked them same story as you I just went with the flow they are possibly worry bout the same thing as you
2007-02-23 03:01:09 · answer #10 · answered by Love Honey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
decide what you want to do for this relation
if u r not interested in him
then embrass him b4 he does you
say him "he was not up to ur mark to satisfy you"
it will be shamed to him
but you will save from embrassment
anyway he was not ur true friend
if he was he would not hav taken chance to sleep with you when you was out of conciousness
2007-02-23 02:53:42 · answer #11 · answered by rick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋