2007-02-23 02:39:24 · 29 answers · asked by ladi_elmo09 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hook up with a guy uglier than him. Make sure he sees you with him. It will drive him nuts wondering what hes got over him.
2007-02-23 04:36:48 · answer #1 · answered by idaho69442 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Revenge is a negative reaction to a feeling of loss. You should never take revenge that is too much worse than the deed you are trying to get revenge for, otherwise you may get decapitated. If you feel loss explain it to your x and see how they deal with it. Then, if not satisfied carefully plot vengance which should come from within yourself. You have it in you and you know the best way! A subscription to a really sick porno publication is a good start. The junk mail and the email are the revenge that keeps on giving.
2007-02-23 02:53:03 · answer #2 · answered by Tim O 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I seem to understand that you want a recipe for revenging, but not for physically hurting the x, but then you may want to anyway hurt them, maybe in their soul. Then one of the best ways to administer gruesome revenge may be to happily ignore the wrongdoer ex, if you feel or know that they will be sorry about being ignored by you.
In any case it would be more wise to struggle to abstain from seeking or doing any revenge because inflicting revenge would be doing something ugly even for oneself if you are a good-hearted soul; it would not be a pleasant act as it may not be a pleasant act for the executioner to physically execute the culprit.
We may think that that x was an independent soul who hopefully freely chose to go into a glowing love-relation, and then that relation didn't last. That x had not been sold nor bought, that x was not an inanimate item, but a soul who hoped that the love-relation would succeed, but didn't succeed, and at last that soul wasn't strong enough, nor motivated enough, to contribute to its everlasting success.
I seem to remember to once have seen a scene in a movie with a man who visited his x who had found a new love. It made him happy to see them happily baffled while he gave them flowers and congratulated and so also wished them that this time it would last. That was beautiful!
2007-02-23 04:02:56 · answer #3 · answered by pasquale garonfolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why get revenge? Be the better person and just move on. If you move on and don't let them know they hurt you, that is the best revenge. They realize they have no power over you.
2007-02-23 02:43:07 · answer #4 · answered by Dale D 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 01:51:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live Well and Enjoy your life! You can't get revenge on someone without hurting them if they are secure about themselves and are over the past relationship. They have moved on and are probably are only interested in whats going on in their life.
2007-02-23 04:08:19 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that revenge is not the way to go. BUT in the event that you have to seek some sort of punishment...my friend did this to her man:
1. She called him and said that she just wanted to "hook up" with him, no strings attached, for one last time.
2. He, of course, said "Okay..."
3. She told him to meet in a hotel room, and when he got there she tied him to the bed...
4. Then she undressed him, took his clothes, and left him for the maid to find.
Now, I definitely think this was WRONG, but kind of amusing...they broke up because he had cheated on her with a few different women...and she found out.
I think that you should just go on with your life and be happy, there is a reason why you two broke up - and he obviously wasn't the guy for you! Good Luck!
2007-02-23 02:47:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go on with your life. Revenge will just make things worst (what goes around comes around). If you are thinking of revenge, it just means you are not over him yet.
2007-02-23 02:44:18 · answer #8 · answered by 235 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lead a happy, well balanced life and let them see that the break up has been beneficial to you, not something that destroyed you or made you angry and bitter. It's the best revenge of all!
2007-02-23 02:42:35 · answer #9 · answered by Michele D 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Be happy without him. Proves that you don't need the jerk in your life.
Other than that revenge is a never ending process and it's best just to avoid it.
2007-02-23 02:42:13 · answer #10 · answered by Awesome Alisa 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is to simply go on with your life and be happy. X's dont like to know that you are happy without them. So basically become happy VERY fast and they will feel like shi*.
2007-02-23 02:42:02 · answer #11 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋