Ok my best friend wants to move out because of her father, and she moving with her best friend. And they want me to ocme with them becuase I am morea adult than they are, i can cook, and run a household and run finacec beucase I have been doing it all my life at home. i know they ownt make it on their own, and wouldnt hesitate to help them out. BUt, if I move out, i will have to hvae a full time job, and I fear working so o much will affect my grades, and jepordize my future. I honestly think they will end up in a shelter if I dont come, and they have even admitted that themselves. So the question is, do I look after my best friends, and sacrifice future security, or do I ilook after me?
2007-02-23 02:37:08 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you are as mature as your friends seem to think (and you sound like you are), then you already know the answer to this question. You do not want to jeopardize your life and your future for a friend. Not to mention, the majority of best friends who go to the same college together and live together never talk to each other again. Living together is harsh and puts a lot of strain on a relationship. Especially when they already admit they want you to live with them to cook, clean and be the bookkeeper.
Sometimes you have to offer tough love. If you love them, you want them to become mature grown adults--they have a mother and don't need another one. If they only want a friend to cook and clean up after them, don't eagerly volunteer for this job. Saying no to this offer may cost you a friendship, but I can predict that saying yes to this offer is guarenteed to cost you the friendships.
2007-02-26 03:44:30 · answer #1 · answered by phantom_of_valkyrie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋