im really confused about racists.?

Question

ok,im light skinned.ive noticed darker complexed ppl always b callin ppl the forbiddened n-word,but when a light person says it,they's called racist.just like my bf.he likes to call white ppls dumb and things,but when they argue back,he gets offended.

if the n-word is forbiddened now,y do dark ppls still say it when they wanted it abandond in the first place?

when i say ligh skinned,i mean white ppls.everytime a white person calls sum1 the forbiddened n-word,the darker person gets offended.but when i darker person says it to a white person,they get aggravated.
i no the definaiton of the "n"-word.but sum ppl dont.my question should have been..... y do dark skins consider white ppl racists when they say the n-word,but when a colored says it,its considered slang.

Answer 1

Why do white people find it so damn hard to understand? We can say the word cuz we black. There you go. Get that through your thick head.

Answer 2

You are so transparent. :-)

first, you are not black, you're not even high-yellow black or light skin, your very much white and probably a male. Your over use of the ebonics gave you away, it''s too obvious and doesn't flow naturally.
Also, light skin blacks use the N word all the time, there is no divide between blacks in that regard, only a person who has little cultural knowledge of blacks would make that assumption...it's a juvenile mistake. :-)

Secondly, if you want to discuss the N word... come back as yourself and not hiding like a coward and try it again.... OK :-(

Answer 3

Never knew a light skinned black who couldn't say the n-word. I've seen light skinned blacks say it all the time with no consequence. All in all, I think the word is stupid and I wish people would just stop using it. But people have double standards about this word which is just the way society works. Much like a woman being able to call another woman a bytch, but if a man does it, he gets his azz handed to him.

Answer 4

I don't mined to be correct in a way.If you look it up in a Dictionary the N word means a very dirty person.So It is meant for every color of the skin.

Answer 5

It's a double standard perpetuated by political correctness.
It's also accepted in today's society for white people to be called any nasty name imaginable.

Answer 6

I have the same damn Q. I am white and i have gotten in trouble for hate crime yet the same people i told shouldnt be in the USA said bad things about me too yet i was the one who got in trouble with a cop it really really makes me mad!

Answer 7

Really. Because I see very light blacks using the Nword all the time...to dark skinned blacks, to light skinned blacks, to whites, to Latinos.

Maybe where you're from...but where I'm from all black people use it.

Answer 8

not all dark people say it. some are just ignorant.