is there always a good end for each love story even when the love is only one sided and not between two persons. For instance what will u do if the one u love loves someone else and later you hear both of them got married and then got killed in an accident?
2007-02-23 02:19:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no
2007-02-23 02:22:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see what your are getting at hear. What has to be understood about loving a person there is no obligation for that person to return the love. Each person makes decisions they believe are best for them and yes life has tragic events.
You have to get real love is it own reward and I put emphasis on "real". Love not based of some idea of delusions or fantasy only wants what is best for the person that is the object of such love. Appreciation is also a major component of real love which enhances the experience.
Like for instance you drive to some remote place to see the most majestic scene in nature that takes your breath away, while driving back you have a car accident. Does having a car accident change the inherent beauty of nature? The answer is obviously no. It is the same for real love. This example is also true if real love is one sided.
Life it self is a love story with a tragic ending if you really think about it. We live, we learn, and we love but death brings it all to an end. What makes it all worth while is pure appreciation for the whole experience. So life itself serve as example to prove there is always a good end to every love story.
Life itself is a love story that ends every time.
2007-02-23 11:29:00 · answer #2 · answered by T-Rex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not every love story have their good ending like film. From what you say that your loved one got married and died of accident, it`s a tragic ending, but it`s not wise to measure their love just by what the end. I think love is a journey. Some sad and other happy based on how we maintain it. Good luck
2007-02-23 10:31:49 · answer #3 · answered by Vincent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say no...there is no such thing as a happy ending any longer in this day and age. If you love someone and never let them know it...and then they marry another and something bad happens, then it will be very painful and you will have to deal with not having that closer to that ending.
2007-02-23 10:27:03 · answer #4 · answered by Latino Heat 4ever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a purpose for everythimg we experience in our lives....and usually it has to do with our spirtual growth...hurt makes you become strong. What happens to people physically, I think, is beyond our control. We live in the real world and some people die before their time, but because we do live in the real world, we dont have control over what other people will do. For instance, the person who smashed into the car and killed the occupants, did not do so because the people deserved to die, it happened because car accidents are a part of life. Maybe he was a drunk driver, maybe he fell asleep. Accidents hapen and sometimes it has nothing to do with Kharma....all it has to do with, is we are living in the real world and people get killed in car accidents every day, but when it happens to someone close to use, we tend to think of why it happened.....we dont think much about all the news reports of strangers being killed in car accidents...or even when thousand of people die in an earthquake or tidal wave...we dont know these people, so we put it down to an "accident" I dont think anyone is born with a dark cloud over their head based on how they conduct their lives. Accidents happen based on human error...that is a fact. Steve Irwin died from a ray's poisoness barb...he was a great person, he loved his wife and children with all his heart...they were his world...but a freaky accident caused his death.....he was a gambler, he played with his life...he took risks, so it stands to reason he would die taking risks....driving a car is riskiy...walking across the road is risky....getting killed is not determined by the way we live our lives....accidents happen....but when we are hurt by someone, it is comforting somehow to think that they got what they deserved...sometimes it is kharma...but most time, I believe, accidents are caused by human error or freaks in nature...you sometimes are in the wrong place at the wrong time, and I dont think that has anything to do with who you have hurt or how many people you have hurt because I have seen some really horrible people, who treat other people like pieces or garbage who live to be a ripe old age and who die of old age. I dont think there is rhyme or reason why people die....Diseases are a part of life....does a 16 year old person deserve to die because of a birth defect...hell, no....but thats life, and if we question everyone's death as being a judgement to how they lived their lives, then it would make no sense how a baby can die of AIDS before they even had a chance to experience life.
2007-02-23 11:04:03 · answer #5 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no, its not always a good ending for each love story. It varies on a case to case basis. Like your example, its not a good ending because they got killed.
2007-02-23 10:24:40 · answer #6 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read "Love Story" A very unhappy ending
2007-02-23 10:23:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life sucks, love sucks and there is not such thing as a happy, fairy tale ending. Get a grip on life, dude.
2007-02-23 10:52:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There certainly are not happy endings to all love stories... Get real.
We live in a world of injustices, inconsistencies and tragedies; and good gosh, that's just how it goes sometimes - love or no love.
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2007-02-23 10:41:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats just morbid and u need to find a hobby.
2007-02-23 10:24:58 · answer #10 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what? you are having them both die how could that be a happy ending..... would that make you happy?
2007-02-23 10:30:36 · answer #11 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋