I am a 23 year old man who has never had a girlfriend and is shy. i have this lady we are in the same class and i would like to ask her to have sex with me..how do i go about it.....
dont call me names please its a sincere appeal...
2007-02-23 02:19:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
If u just go up to her and say can we have sex ... suffer the consequences... most but not all like to be made to feel special.. take her out on a date .. u might b lucky she could be a 1 night girl .. if she has any respect for herself or if you have any repect for urself or her then do it properly whats the rush u've waited this long !!!
2007-02-23 02:27:39 · answer #1 · answered by smilesthatsme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I second that. Don't ask for sex (and wait for at least a few dates in before pursuing that idea or she'll think that's all you want). Talk to her casually in class, or ask her if she'd like to grab coffee/a drink after class so you can get to know her better. If that works well take her out to dinner, or come up with something more unique based on her interests (e.g. if she likes art take her to MOMA, or if she loves winter sports go iceskating, etc...)
If you're shy, just approach her as if you were trying to meet a new friend. If you're both attracted to each other things will flow naturally from there.
Good Luck
2007-02-23 10:33:49 · answer #2 · answered by Kendall M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try just sayin hi to her and becoming FRIENDS FIRST and then let it progress naturally. Just askin for sex will get you the worst reaction possible,lol. And don't be intimidated cuz she could be just as nervous and shy as you. Use a little confidence when you say hi, ask her "how are you". You could even be funny, I sure your good at something find a way to let her know. If you draw carry one on top of your books on your way to the class you have with her so she can "just happen to see it" you know what I mean.
2007-02-23 10:43:44 · answer #3 · answered by Shy Sweetness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shud be friend with her first,, then,when u think it's time 2 d8 her,d0 so,, after a few times dating her,, try t0 ask her out for a sex,, but not too early,, let's try,after 6 or 7 date,, i hope u'll find out it urself,, its d best way th0ugh~
2007-02-23 12:53:21 · answer #4 · answered by drake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jumping to a conclusion is a very dangerous idea. you have to date her first and give her the assurance that you love her... if you only want her for that sex thingy---- dont think about dating that girl coz you will just hurt her... thank you and gud day.
2007-02-23 10:39:19 · answer #5 · answered by ♥@n$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ya think u need to wait about this and first ask her out before asking her to have sex with u.That would be dumb she would probably hurt u.
2007-02-23 10:27:45 · answer #6 · answered by Becky<3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to date her first. if you ask her just for sex you might get slapped and she wont like you at all.
2007-02-23 10:24:25 · answer #7 · answered by misunderstood 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋