fear of being on ur own and living alone?

Question

hey

how do you get use to the idea of being on ur own and living alone
with nobody to see or look forward to or anything.

one day i'm gonna have to live alone but am afraid because i fear that i wont be able to cope.

how do you overcome the fear that it will be ok?

i know only after i have done it then i will know but how do you convince yourself that everything will be fine?

Answer 1

hi friend.
you are not alone. i am with you. so are 100s and 1000s of people on yahoo quest n answers.
GOD is with you. he is ur creator, your FATHER. he looks after his children.
pls read MANY LIVES MANY MASTERS by dr brian weiss.
pls try to go in for something mind-soothing and nerve-calming like REIKI. many people/websites give u reiki initiation for free.
you can try yoga/meditation or SAHAJAYOGA, see the net, it will be in ur town and its FREE. they have christain, muslim and hindu prayers.
if u want, you can mail me with ur specific problem. i maybe 1000s of miles away, but will try to help you.
take care n be happy
happiness sometimes comes from the door you never knew was open...

Answer 2

Its just something that you push through. I've lived alone alot, and its hard at first, but you kind of get into your own routine and then when someone actually does move in with you, its EVEN HARDER at first because you had this routine once and now you've had to accomodate their routine and its just hard. It just takes time. Good luck

Answer 3

You Must mature, you cant stay in mommies house forever, so prepare for your bright future, go to college have that away from home dorm experience, you know on my own, roommate thing
it helps to transition you for real life. you will be fine just look
forward to your future, and life, it is what you make it.

Answer 4

I use to be that way but I been through somethings and know it's
nice being by myself you'll get use to it