2007-02-23 02:11:30 · 19 answers · asked by jennapender 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
First, you have to decide how you feel yourself. If her being lesbian bother you, you have to decide how to deal in your own heart and mind. If she is a true friend it really won't matter. True friendship, like true love is unconditional.
2007-02-23 05:47:26 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you have to do anything?
Just be her friend, Does it change anything if she is a lesbian?
Is she a different person? or is she still your friend just like she always was?
Just be supportive, just because she likes girls doesn't mean she likes you "that " way because lets be honest she hasnt made an advance on you up until now so why would she after coming out?
Darlin don't think that just becacuse we as lesbians like girls that all girls in the world are our playground.
Lets be even more honest, do all men in the world like every woman in the world? NO then why would we?
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2007-02-23 14:16:59 · answer #2 · answered by hersbandandwife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I had a lesbian friend I would do nothing. Who would I be to judge if a person was a lesbian, it doesn't make them any different as a person, at least I don't think so. I had a lesbian friend once, I worked with her, and she was the best friend I ever had. She was great with my children. I know a lot of people say, (birds of a feather), but aren't alot of people that way today. Anyway, since my marriage several years back, my friend and I have lost touch. She since then moved to another state as well as I have. Hello Pam where ever you are.
2007-02-23 10:23:28 · answer #3 · answered by Dee G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing I guess...If she decides to tell you thats fine. It would mean she trusts you and feels like telling you. Many friends of mine had their doubts before I came out, but they never "did" anything about it. They just waited until I was ready. Just be yourself. She is not a monster she is the person you always knew. Get over it.
2007-02-23 10:16:26 · answer #4 · answered by Nostromo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not make a big deal out of it. She is who she is. If she's your friend then just continue/start to be a good friend to her.
2007-02-23 11:57:04 · answer #5 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-23 10:16:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do nothing.
What would you do if you found out your friend liked to listen to Bach or Beethoven? Same answer: Do nothing.
2007-02-23 10:52:53 · answer #7 · answered by castle h 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
still be her friend.
My best friend is straight and I'm gay, and she still loves me as a friend more than ever! She knows I respect her and would never hit on her.
2007-02-23 11:10:12 · answer #8 · answered by Sammy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's a friend, I support her
2007-02-23 10:25:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You respect whatever her decision about her sexuality will be and you support her.
2007-02-23 11:27:28 · answer #10 · answered by Fenician 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋