PLEASE TELL ME ITS VERY SERIOUS..........
I am in love with person whom I saw in my cousion brother wedding & in every function held before marrige. I dont no anything about him name , Address, Ph.no., nothing. 1yr has been passed & I never saw him . I only know that he is the good friend of my cousion. But, I can't ask my cousion any thing about him as I feel shy & I don't have such an open relation with my cousion. I love tht person very much . In the past 1yr i cry every day while remembering him. I am in true love with tht guy . I cant even talk about it to any person in my family or relations as all seem very strict. And broter sisters in all families r too young. I am crazy about that guy. I know he is a good guy as he helped lot in wedding .Every times his wanted to say me somthing but I always ignore in shy. please healp me . give some suggesion to get tht guy . ohh! Please .I will die. pleaseee
2007-02-23 01:29:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
leave it destiny in the hope it will happily end like in the movie "serendipity" which probably won't.
or do some of the real work and ask your relative directly.
instead of asking it directly it you can write it?
2007-02-23 01:45:28 · answer #1 · answered by Hockeymom!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you're making a mountian out of a mole hill. You're not in love with Mr. X, you're infatuated with him. In your mind you've built him up to be the perfect man, yet admit you absolutely nothing about him and he's made no attempt to contact you. If it was indeed "true love" don't you think you would have heard from him by now?
You make him superior in your mind because he's "safe." Without contact or knowledge of the indivigual you can fantisize anything you want about him.
You really want to meet him? How about looking through some photographs of the wedding with your cousin, and casually point him out and say someting like "I remember him. Now what what was his name again?" and take it from there.
Just a word of advice; he may not be the wonderful thing you believe; or he just may be married. Then what? Think about it.
2007-02-23 02:10:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, don't die, first of all. If you can't find the words to speak, could you write to your cousin? Email your cousin and ask about this person you love. Sitting quietly and dying isn't going to get the guy, and I think you need to say something so you can either have a real relationship with him or find someone else. You can do it! Write!!
2007-02-23 01:34:28 · answer #3 · answered by Kitten Hood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look first of all being a guy i know that if my cusin sis tells me sumthing ill be always open to her ,secondly having been in luv at weddings so often i have realised that it is pretty easy to fall in luv at weddings .one thing u cud do is slowly open up with ur cusin slowly his frnd can *** in the picture too ur cusin will realise u like that guy if u ask a few questions abt him
if he gets angry or sumthing unexpected u can always joke it off just give it a try he mite help u finally
i wud if i my cusin wud be in a similar position
infact he wud be the best judje of the guy too so wat he ratioinally decides can always be banked upon so gud luk
2007-02-23 01:38:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't in love. You are infatuated and are more in love with how this guy you only saw made you feel. Perhaps you should stop being a baby and mature a little first.
2007-02-23 01:34:30 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you like the guy this much, dont feel shy about asking your cousin. tell your cousin that you really like him and see if your cuz will help you out. this may be the only way that you can see him. good luck!!
2007-02-23 01:49:07 · answer #6 · answered by sasha_miller_2008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know anything about the guy, not even his name! You're not in love, little girl. Suck it up, talk to a boy at your school instead.
2007-02-23 01:56:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you rascist!!!!! and who would not know the answer to that!!! the respond is that makes us blacks prettier than the common individual. (P.S. i'm a million/2 black , and a million/2 mexican... in different words you know i'm warm!!) OH and playstation dude.... aint isn't a notice!!!!!!
2016-09-29 12:32:49 · answer #8 · answered by bebber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl...JUST DO IT! Loosen up...and go after your man. If you don't you will ALWAYS wonder what if? You will find life alot easier to live if you approach this guy with your feelings.
2007-02-23 01:37:56 · answer #9 · answered by shaylea29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, DON"T DIE...second, if you are compleatly sure you love this guy nothing will stop you from asking your cousin. if you are scared to ask write to him...and last before you tell this guy you love him get to know him and make sure its love...GOOD LUCK
:D
2007-02-23 12:17:46 · answer #10 · answered by crazyydaisyy<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋