I made friends with a guy at my new job. We where sending funny emails back and forth to each other. Well he sent a very inapropriate response asking if something turned me on and while my husband was in my email looking for something, that response came in as a new email. My husband thinks I am having an affair with this guy or at least talking to him like I am. I am not attracted to this other guy in any way thaught we where just friends. I sent him a reply that his response was not appropriate, and to no longer send me emails but my husband thinks I am just trying to cover myself. I have never cheated or had any intentions to cheat. I love my husband very much. What can I do to get him to believe me?
2007-02-23 01:07:07 · 23 answers · asked by catmomiam 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I can see why your husband is upset and wondering what is going on here. If this were him getting emails and responses like this how would you feel and what would you think. Basically put yourself in your husbands shoes. If i were you i would stop emailing this guy and just email and flirt with only your husband. This will stop all confusion.
2007-02-23 01:17:54 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well this is a pretty hard thing to go about. Try having him talk to the guy, and the guy will explain himself. Tell your husband if it makes him feel better he can come visit you at work any time he likes, let him check your e mails first, these things will help, but its hard do get trust if that person thinks your up to something. Also ask this: Have i ever done this before? Have i ever given you a reason to not trust what i say? That statement usually helps alot!
2007-02-23 01:12:47 · answer #2 · answered by sarah 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop the e-mails. Tell your husband it started off as a fun thing and you didn't realize this guy was going to send inappropriate responses. Although it may have been innocent, if I were your husband, I'd wonder too.
2007-02-23 01:11:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can see why he is upset. Tell him you are sorry, that nothing happened and you didn't know this guy was going to say that. Then terminate the friendship; it's not worth upsetting your husband. Think about how you would feel if the situation was reversed. He will feel better if you end this and not chat with anymore men.
2007-02-23 01:33:37 · answer #4 · answered by megan261980 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband doesn't trust me
2014-12-15 19:48:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this could be 1 of 2 things. the 1st is that you have broken his trust, now you need to quit the job or go to a different department. somewhere, where the other guy will not be.
the 2nd is that maybe your husband is the one having the affair. many times when a spouse is cheating, they have it in their mind that when i'm doing this, what's she doing?
2007-02-23 01:14:09 · answer #6 · answered by lidakamo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You got busted. Well know you have to re-insure him,trust has been lost ,this will take time if he will forgive you.You were playing but the other guy wasn't .The damage is done. Best of luck
2007-02-23 01:28:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY was your husband even going through your e-mail?Have some privacy.
Just tell him what you've told us--be honest.
2007-02-23 01:10:15 · answer #8 · answered by MaryBeth 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why i have no friends?
2017-02-23 00:49:07 · answer #9 · answered by Beverly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Am I shallow
2017-02-04 15:35:13 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋