well heres a follow up question to my " i think my best friend has a thing for me"
like she still wants to be with him and give him a second chance, but i think she should get rid of him. and so does our other friend. but shes too blind and thinks that he's going to change. but in reality, hes still going to stare at me and hit on me when she isnt around. cause it isnt even 8:30 yet and he has hit on me. he doesnt realize that its hurting her. cuz he came up and asked me what was wrong with her. but i played it off and said that i didnt know. i told him to talk to her about it. but he wont. he depends on me to help him with ever aspect of their relationship. im the one who got them to date again. this guy is so clueless. plus he's being a jerk to her by wanting to be with me. cuz when they broke up he was hitting on me. and it seems like his chrush is devolping everyday.
how can i get her to ditch this wanna be a cheater loser? she deserves so much better but cant see it.
2007-02-23 00:27:45 · 13 answers · asked by Nay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I must have fallen asleep when they passed the law making relationships to always involve three people. Why do you and so many others feel the need to police your friends relationships. Why must everyone live by your standards. Pain as well as pleasure make us who we are. It appears that you feel you friend is not capable of making her own decisions. Allow her to make mistakes...be a true friend and don't be someone who just waits around for the I told you so.
2007-02-23 00:42:08 · answer #1 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well let me tell you.. I have a friend and i told her that i really never like any of you her boyfriends and they were so mean and Rudd.. The only thing you can do is let her find out the hard way even though she is your friend. I told my friend about her bf and told everything i could to see show who they truly were and she just decides not to listen to me and she found out the hard and in the end she said i should of listened to you!
2007-02-23 09:24:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ask you're friend if you can do this one day when he thinks you're all alone in the house invite him over hide you're friend or a video camera and let him hit on you but act ho you normal act when he does it so she can see him in the act but if she seen him do it before then try hitting on him back.
2007-02-23 12:16:04 · answer #3 · answered by Demetra P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The truth is that they will never see things your way. You just gotta let them see things with their own eyes and just be there for them to pick up the pieces after the upcoming break-up. Good luck!
2007-02-23 09:28:41 · answer #4 · answered by Wanda 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well, u could get some dirt on him and tell her, y not tell her he's been flirting with other women, there really isnt much u can do, i think just stay out of it and just be there for her when shes hurt and dont lecture her
2007-02-23 08:46:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, this is what I would do, but I'm not a very nice person. If your friend doesn't listen to you, just leave her alone about it. She got herself into this and she won't listen to you and she's just getting deeper and deeper into it. I would not mention it. When something really bad happens she'll regret not listening to you. So, honestly, that's what I would do.
2007-02-23 08:37:35 · answer #6 · answered by !DookDook! ♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
first of all i would stay away from him if he's such a jerk ... cuz obviously you are staying around him which gives him the opportunity to hit on you. a part of me thinks you like him hitting on you. another thing is that your job as a friend to to try to support her. in the end its her life and her own decison.
2007-02-23 08:33:28 · answer #7 · answered by destiney 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She isn't blind. She knows. She just wants to believ that he will change so bad. It's sad.
2007-02-23 09:43:16 · answer #8 · answered by megan261980 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can't.
Once they put on those rose colored blinders...,
they only see red!
Sorry, it's just the way it is!
Oh, & stop trying to steal her date! Just kiddin!
2007-02-23 08:31:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be there to catch when she start falling...
now thats a real freind... unlike mine :( sad but true..
2007-02-23 08:41:35 · answer #10 · answered by Vu 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋