when you care and love sombody and have to be forgiving them for serioiusly disrespecting you alot of the time
it taxes so much of your spirit.......and then you realise tha they
might be exploiting your good nature.......
you just get fed up
The question is what would you do in a situation like this?
2007-02-23 00:17:02 · 13 answers · asked by *Cutie* 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get some self-respect. People who respect themselves do not tolerate disrespect from others, not even those they love. It makes sense to forgive disrespect once or twice, but you have to have a limit. You behaved like a doormat, so your significant other treated you like a doormat. It will take a great deal of effort to change this pattern of behavior, but it can be done and it must be done if you are married. If you are not married, you should probably end the relationship.
2007-02-23 00:22:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive and move on, realize i am the better person for it. But hey my opinions never get me the best answer and the 10 points which is why i don't end up on the leader boards.
2007-02-23 00:20:35 · answer #2 · answered by LM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes i feel you need to make others realise your worth miss and realise your importance in their life.I plan to do just that soon since i feel the same way with guy hes my best friend and we are in love for years so its that way too.
2007-02-23 00:21:44 · answer #3 · answered by zthestoryofus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about what your willing to put up with. If you expect/want more - and you know he won't give it - Then move on to someone who will! You can't spend your life waiting for someone to change - THEY WON'T! You can only change yourself - with that I mean - either except the way that he is or choose to move on and be treated right.
2007-02-23 00:23:28 · answer #4 · answered by kajungirls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would break it off. Theres ony so much you can take and forgiveness is only effective if the person doesnt do it again.
2007-02-23 00:23:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Place urself in the opposite camp.
2007-02-23 00:49:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't forgive them for disrespecting you. I would venture to say, never forgive them for disrespecting u.
2007-02-23 00:20:48 · answer #7 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously this person doesnt share your feelings and its time to do something spiteful to them and then move on!!! Oh, this is about you--just move on then.
2007-02-23 00:22:54 · answer #8 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave the bird and the cat with him pack your bags and as quick as you can move out
2007-02-23 01:06:10 · answer #9 · answered by Arthur Richards of Kent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. i would have came out
2007-02-23 00:31:43 · answer #10 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋