If you had a hot sexy partner, with no sexual inhibitions whatsoever (full house) dress up, never says no etc etc would you still visit strip clubs, escort agencies and the like?
2007-02-23 00:00:10 · 50 answers · asked by Terry T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Probably not, maybe on very rare occasions like if a friend I havn't seen in a very long time invited me there. But no I wouldn't really go if I had everything at home.
2007-02-23 00:05:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
The question may not be about sex, but maturity and stages of life. I assume you and he are relatively young.
If he has a sexy willing parter "at home" he may be "intoxicated" with greedy selfish needs, like a kid in a candy store.
You didn't say anything about your feelings on the matter. I'm guessing that you wonder "why you aren't enough". You could ask him that question but yourger guys typically can't produce a coherent answer to that question.
Good sex is not necessarily love. Even multiple orgasms can fall short if there is no lasting sense of satisfaction that lingers long after the orgasms have ended.
You offering "all" of yourself is sexy and probably fun. Another question is what do you get? Are you satisfied with what you are getting now?
Sometimes guys (mostly younger) just want what they don't have. If he feels he already "has" you and takes you for granted, you may want to consider a more reciprocal relationship.
2007-02-23 05:34:11 · answer #2 · answered by woodmark52 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I am not a guy but I have been a dancer for a few years and I have quit a few male clients that come in the club to see me. Some who are happily married to beautiful women and talk about their wives, yes in a good way, show me their wives sexy pictures and tell me about their latest exciting sexual adventure with their wives. Now some of the guys come in the club, get private rooms and just hang out drink and talk because they honestly just want to relax have a drink and talk to a female who is attractive but there is absolutly no real commitment. And there are other guys who are happily married and tell me about their "friend with benifits" and they ask me about hooking up with them on a more personal basis and They still tell me they love their wives and have a great time with them. Why do they do it, I have no idea... But when it comes down to it, you could be the perfect girl and do everything a man could ask for. So dont blame yourself if your guy goes to a club or gets an escort, Some men are just triflin dogs, So try to find one of the good ones.
Oh, If you find out he ever uses escorts, LEAVE HIM ASAP. Those girls have sex with just about anybody with about $400 to their name(Dancers are not the same thing). If he would risk his sexual health to get laid by someone he knows nothing about except they have sex for money... Big Problem
2007-02-23 02:33:45 · answer #3 · answered by tt1984 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I Can honestly say that I would not visit a strip show or an escort if I had a girlfriend never mind a sexual dynamo as you have described, why pay for something when you are getting it for free, it is also a lot better sex with somebody you know and love then a complete stranger you have to pay.
2007-02-23 00:16:33 · answer #4 · answered by Loader2000 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like addictive type behavior. Why would you go out for something that you're already getting at home. Something to also think about, whether or not the person who is the "hot and sexy partner" putting himself or herself in a position where they are overstepping their boundaries for "love". Doing things that they wouldn't normally do, and being able to maintain self respect..
2007-02-23 00:52:44 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the world would you associate strip clubs with escort agencies!?! One is harmless fun, the other is paying for sex. If your boyfriend is seeing escorts, get the hell outta there, before you catch a disease!
2007-03-02 08:31:21 · answer #6 · answered by Vix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably only a strip club with the boys... ie someones buck or birthday night and see it as fun... Ie the stripper covering him in foam etc.
Not escourt agencies ... All thats mainly for lonley guys
However would still go backpacker clubs with wet t shirt type comps pref with girlfriend hoping she takes part for a laugh or enter full monty comps aiming the show to her hoping she cheers loudest.. Then can find suitable punishments later for being naughty.
Some guys actually pay for the girlfriends to go to male strippers so they have a lads night in and the girls come in all horney and hot so the guys know they gonner get it good that night,
It depends how you see it...it just silly not serious. The instances I mention would be all cheers and loud silliness... Not quietly staring. What would be fun would be to be their with gf covering eyes and you snogging her as more fun then the action
But escourts is actually sex and thats different... If got a girlfriend you should be with her unless you are BOTH swingers
2007-02-23 00:21:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
no. the reason you go with escort girls and so is that you can get exactly what you want . I know it sounds lazy but you dont have to give anything in return. If I had a girl who would do anything then I wouldnt need to see escort girls
2007-02-23 06:49:45 · answer #8 · answered by danny c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I had a hot sexy partner, I'd rather stay home and make love to her until I'm totally wasted and exhausted.
2007-03-02 19:32:54 · answer #9 · answered by Sherwin R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One thing has absolutely nothing to do with the other. Men visit strip clubs because they have no social skills when it comes to relating to the opposite sex.
2007-02-23 00:26:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋