not until recently i had a very strong urge to check on my husbands hp and wallet and all of his personal belongings. i had continuos dreams that he's cheating on me. i really believe god is great. maybe this His way of letting me know that mu hubby is cheating on me. i even checked his phone bill and notice that even when he's abroad he keep calling this one number. i called and a girl answered. i question her if she know that the guy she's dating is married. she knew he's marriedf and she knew all about our two kids and thier age and what they are like and all that. but she claim thaty they are just friends. when i asked her to come over so we can talk things out she backed out the very last minute. i hunt her day and night and she called me again 1 week later and tell me she's LESBIAN! big liar! anyways, i checked my husbands banking receipts and notice that he's been transferring money to her on regular basis. i confronted him and a big war exploded and now he said there's no more
2007-02-22 23:49:22 · 16 answers · asked by betrayed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
just to let you know. things have been going very bad between us ever since. i lost all my trust and my respect for him. even though he cried very hard and said he's sorry. he said he think nohing of the relationship that he had. he said he really regreted. but i told him straight off in his face that i will not be able to forgive him for this mistake that he made cos' i gave up everythng for him and the only happiness that i find in my family that he had to take away from me. every now and then i can't help but bite him cos' i;ll can't forget what he did but whenever this happens, he said i'm not making things better between us but worse. why should i be the one to make things better as i'm not the one who cheat! shouldn't he be the one?
2007-02-23 00:33:27 · update #1
honey....empty the bank accounts and get yourself a really good lawyer....good luck
2007-02-22 23:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I highly recommend getting into couples counseling.. you have a serious issue on your hands right now.. He is a cheater and you are aware of it.. It is not a fun thing to have to cope with .. Get some counseling.. and then make some decisions as you become comfortable with and certain of the right things and choices for you. You don't have to do anything today.. pray about it and keep reaching out for help. You have the signs you need , now you just need the courage and sometimes finding the strength within is very hard especially when kids are involved.. No one can tell you what is best for you.. You may never get over this.. it is a huge thing when trust is broken in a relationship, you really have nothing to work with.. see if he would be willing to seek counseling.. and go from there.. Kids don't ever need to be with mom and dad if it is a bad situation.. it will affect them, ,so don't fool yourself.. good Luck
2016-05-24 01:49:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling, Take care of yourself & your children
if you want to stay with him STAY, but make sure that you define your life with this experience
Meaning that you will make fianancial plan (a bank account or investments ) just for you
Today divorce is so easy everytime something goes wrong
everyone answer is get a divorce
Well don't make it easy for him, as long that he is not abusing you or the children TRY to give your marriage a chance but make condition that are important for your future
Also Don't ever call the woman it is your husband who own you respect the woman is a stranger when you call her it degrade you
always deal with jerk yourself because now what will happen is the woman will talk about your call to her friends and laugh
Take Care &
Good Luck
2007-02-23 00:20:37 · answer #3 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just file a divorce and leave him with your kid. This man is not your worth and can shed crocodile tears, and imagine laughting and hugging the other woman in bed. So, move on and don't waste your time to save the marriage.
2007-02-23 00:55:53 · answer #4 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pack the kids up and leave he is not worth the love you have for him. Once a cheater always a cheater. Get a really good lawyer.
Good Luck with your decision.
2007-02-22 23:59:00 · answer #5 · answered by butterflybaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave him. You don't want to go crazy wondering if he is still cheating on you. There are alot of crazy people in the world and you don't want to be in harms way. Who knows if this woman is crazy. She doesn't have any morals if she knows she's ruining a marriage. Your husband is choosing selfishness over his precious children.
2007-02-22 23:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by fodiane 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a wate of space change the locks keep the house and never grant him acsses to the kids again he is a homewrecker
2007-02-23 00:10:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for certain he has been cheating on u, and really doesn't want to be confronted, and may have no intention of stopping it. i do believe our intuition tells us many things about our lives if we are smart enough to hear it, can come through dreams i believe. i would not trust him, especially if he does not show remorse for his wrong.
2007-02-23 00:00:52 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you hate people who break up families.
don't you wish everyone could find their own family and not f*** up ours.
Don't worry about him take to court and get the rest of his s***
Once a dog always a dog
2007-02-23 00:15:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start afresh if u can. Time will heal all the wounds.
2007-02-23 00:55:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋