does orgasm really exists?? how can i get one without stimulating my clitoris??
2007-02-22 23:11:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Yes orgasms definately exist!! If he's cumming before you then you should try a few things.
1. He can masturbate earlier in the day before you have sex. The more a guy cums the longer it takes him to orgasm again. So he might last longer if he's done it once already that day.
2. Try some foreplay. You two could stimulate each other take a break, and repeat. This will get him used to being aroused for longer periods of time.
3.My boyfriend loves this one. You be in control and set the pace. Then you can decide when you both reach orgasm.
4. If these don't work make him wear a condom or a penis ring. Or he can hold the base of his penis to prevent himself from ejaculating early.
Hope this helps!
2007-02-23 01:53:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
try getting him to pay more attention to you before you start... dont make it a task but make it fun an exploration of what feels good,
learn your own body too, masturbation can really clue in to what will work with a partner. it may be awkard at first but with practise its easier.
get the book "the Guide to getting it on" by goofyfoot press...
look at other options for stimulation, oral, manual, vibrator
once he cums how long does it take for recovery? his ejaculation does not mean the end of a love making session... keep kissing, ,touching and being fun untill he is ready again.
most women need 20 minutes or more of stimulation
and not just direct stimulation, it is also important to include multiple areas of the body and different intestities.
consider watching each other masturbate you may learn a few things.
let him know its not a problem that he comes quickly but that you need more stimulation and you want to explore options so you both can be more statisfied.
look up tantric sex.
2007-02-23 01:23:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they exist. Don't let your booty buddy get you down. From the looks of things it seemed like you just started having sex. If that is true he cums quick because of you. After some time with a different person with more stamana you'll know when you're getting an orgasm. Try an athelete or a dildo.
2007-02-22 23:20:04 · answer #3 · answered by Jackie is cool 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For some women, the only way they have an orgasm is through clitoral stimulation. If you want to have one while he's inside you, he's probably gonna have to slow it down some. Also try simultaneous intercourse and clit stimulation - excellent orgasm!
If he is unable to slow it down, he needs to spend more time on you (foreplay) before starting.
Regardless, don't hesitate to practice on yourself to find out what works best. Explore and enjoy.
2007-02-22 23:23:02 · answer #4 · answered by J F 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him to do some penis exercise. It's all about a healthy penis.
Go to www.codwaytechniques.com for more details.
I've been doing it for about 3-4 weeks and the results are great.
It has helped me with stamina as well as orgasm delay.
I have never felt better about sex. My wife has noticed the difference too. Even though I have not told her I was doing this.
2007-02-23 01:37:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to K-Mart or get on-line and buy some of those de-sensitizing sprays. Spray his unit with the stuff and maybe he'll do better. The other alternative is that you are obviously very hot and good at what you do. Try blowing some bad breath when his eyes get as big as saucers.
2007-02-23 00:03:43 · answer #6 · answered by P W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you not want to stimulate your clitoris? For many women, that is the only way they can orgasm....
2007-02-23 00:05:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most women experience an orgasm through clitoral stimulation.
Make him get you off orally or manually.
Have him wear a condom it will slow him down
2007-02-22 23:21:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
my wife is able to have an orgasm just by playing with my hmmmm. foreplay and oral sex are better for long lasting orgasm. so tell your b/f to tie a knot in it and get on down there.
2007-02-22 23:18:07 · answer #9 · answered by joey h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A Friend said to me once " pre heat the oven before the meat goes in" try a little foreplay
2007-02-22 23:18:34 · answer #10 · answered by smilesthatsme 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋