I am in Spain studying abraod, been here since january 3rd, going home at mid or end of june. I just signed myself into a four month lease for a room in a shared appt. its expensive, and i´m not sure if i´ll like living there. i did it all yesterday, cause i have to move out o my dammned host family on sunday. i wonder whether i ought to have gone to a residnece, its a mroe lively student atmosphere, and they probably are not as exigent about quiet in the building, like they are in a regular appt. I have to share a tiny refrigerator with 2 people, the bathroom is across the hall, so i cant walk to it naked like i would like to. in a residence, for 650 euros per month ( appt 820 dollars) they give you your own room, sheets, towels, your own refrigerator and bathroom and it includes food in residence halls. already put down 680 euros for the appt, am i really up **** creek or do you think i can make it and shoudl make it a learning experience? (i´m 21, i´ve never lived away from home )
2007-02-22 20:18:07 · 6 answers · asked by lonesome me 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Nope, please be positive. It is always challenging to stay with different people. Life is an adventure; you never know what you will get.
When I was a student studying abroad, I have learnt a lot from staying in different places. I’ve learnt to accept different opinions and values; I’ve learnt to tolerate and respect; I’ve learnt to listen and communicate. Those are essentials in terms of interpersonal skills and very useful in the future. My advise is do not expect people to treat you nice, treat them nice first. If they are not nice, respect them and leave them alone. Good luck!
2007-02-26 11:32:09 · answer #1 · answered by Funky girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've got made maximum of huge errors in my existence, if I instructed all of them to you, it would take a techniques too lots area here. i think of a few human beings could study the perplexing way. Others seem to verify with the aid of watching human beings and studying from their errors. some issues nevertheless hang-out me. Others i found out weren't as undesirable as i presumed. on each occasion i ought to restoration issues, I did. many times it became some thing that should harm ME no longer others. nevertheless, while issues went properly, I lived an extraordinarily adventurous existence and would not have neglected it for the international. i eventually heard a word years in the past which helped me very much. That became: you probably did what you knew the thank you to do, and once you knew extra ideal you probably did extra ideal. That enables to get rid of the guilt feeling via fact there is not any use dragging that bags around just to extra torture your self. We could forgive ourselves and then we are able to forgive others while they do dumb issues. there is no longer something worse than dealing with existence hating one's self and others. restoration what you could and flow on. Be interior the present. it rather is many times only superb.
2016-11-25 01:31:23 · answer #2 · answered by zoelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made a decision which is now hard to undo.
Accept it and move on.
You never know, you may learn more about life in that environment then you would ever learn elsewhere.
2007-02-26 07:29:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you'll live
that is what i get told when i have things not perfected
Can you write down what is wrong and undo what you can and live with the rest til your opportunities changes so you don't nag people to death over what you don't like, that is your option to a win win situation in an adverse situation
2007-02-22 20:52:19 · answer #4 · answered by bev 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Consider this a learning experience. Stick it out.
2007-02-26 21:35:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all your purpose there is to learn... make sure where you stay will allow you to focus on your work and limit your distractions.. that is unless your not there to learn....
2007-02-27 06:30:19 · answer #6 · answered by italianmami7447 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋