Hi, I want to know does the sexual needs and sexual preferences of women change with age? After how many years of marriage does sexual boredom stars to kick in?
2007-02-22 20:16:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It totally depends on her relationship with her husband. Does he consider the romance needed in a relationship, does he still find her attractive and say so? Does he tell her things that makes her feel appreciated? Does he groom himself and make sure hes appealing? Does he just do the same thing over and over ..Yawn...alot depends on their communication. I believe alot of women use age, menopause or whatever to give a reason for basically turning off of their spouses for any of the above reasons. I know SOME women loose their want because of hormones or lack of,,but i would say alot because their husband is not creative and amourous. You have to work at a relationship.
2007-02-22 21:33:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 7 years and sex has changed dramatically since we were married. when we first got married we had sex all the time. Now we have "hallway sex". When we pass each other we say "****"-you and that's it.! LOL.
Just kidding. Ya, I think womens needs change every day. And if you don't discuss your needs and desires with your husband, boredom can set in really quickley because he won't know what turns you on and he'll keep doing the same things that he thinks you like or you used to like and got bored with. Explore new things! It only gets boreing when you stop trying.
2007-02-22 22:02:35 · answer #2 · answered by wannaknowtoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You bet it changes with age! Age and experience.. getting to know her own body.. usually makes women more comfortable in their own skin! And then along comes menopause and fluctuating hormone levels and that affects things too.... women just keep changing their whole lives! But the sexual boredom thing.. THAT can happen in a day.. or never.. depends on the couple :)
2007-02-22 20:23:15 · answer #3 · answered by endorable 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't take too long to my mind and what I have seen around. In some cases just a couple of years. Depends on how much you are enjoying it, and how much you let yourself contain your expectation. Like for eg. if you are experimenting kinds and the more active partner, boredom may kick-in much earlier. If you are the kinds who would have it but also do without it, boredom my come in as long as 7 years!
2007-02-23 13:41:23 · answer #4 · answered by bhasug_2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, a BIG yes!
It's true that women hit their sexual prime in later years and the needs change as well.
Younger women don't necessarily have as intense desire as an older woman has.
Also, men seem to FORGET that women take some time to warm up to sex. IT"S CALLED FOREPLAY! Pay attention men. Sex is painful without FOREPLAY. And it takes more than a few minutes to warm up. Indifference may seem like boredom I guess.
2007-02-22 21:14:26 · answer #5 · answered by Pixie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the older you get as a women you do change .i got more adventurous in my thirty's even though i met my husband in my teens.it's a trust thing as before i was scared in case we finished and he would tell people what we got up too.then as years went by i got more confident with my body and do all sorts.now we been together 24 years and we still try new things and love each other very much.and more open talking about things we like .it's all to do with communication.women don't like to be hounded for sex as it's a put off .a lot of caressing and patients on the mans part and when children come if the man helps more it takes the pressure off the women and she isn't to tired.and were not bored with sex it's just trying to be quite cause the kids are older and stay up really late so it's differcult to relax now .can't wait till they leave home now ha!
2007-02-22 20:45:14 · answer #6 · answered by diane o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, Some women have a chemical imboulance that makes them not ******, they just dont like to make it. I am married and my wife is 25, she isn't all into sex and it sucks for me. I have heard in psychology that women are in there sexual prime when they turn 36-46, and men are in their prime from 18-25. It is weird that has to happen but it is proven. Thats why when men marry they cheat at first and once they get older they settle and relax. we get fat and lazy and comfortable. Then the lady will hit that time and mess around with a 20 year old.
2007-02-22 20:25:15 · answer #7 · answered by sirsayer21 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All need sex. Sexual boredome can be avoiding by allowing other to win. Both are always hungry. If both are satisfied on various other matter, there will be no boredom. If 1 of them is unsatisfied due to any reason, sex will be bore. Married women should give food of personal choice of husband so that he is happy. If he is happy in food, he will also eat wife immediately and there will be boredom. My wife is not listening to me, my needs etc. I am also listening to her. Both feel bore in and outside bed. I have on may times asked her to give (food of my taste) and take sex (of her taste) but she is fool. She is not listeng to me.
2007-02-23 01:31:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Women 30 years of age she will have peak sex
2007-02-22 21:07:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When the man stops caring about his partners sexual needs!
2007-02-22 20:23:21 · answer #10 · answered by Eve M 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋