The most basic first step is to identify a guy you like. Then try and establish eye contact with him for at least 3 seconds ... look away.
An eye contact extending over 3 seconds means something else. So your 3 seconds duration of eye contact is critical.
This action gets a guy's antennae up. He looks back at you and he also makes an assessment of you in seconds, and decides to 'pursue' you or forget you. Look your best.
Turn briefly and smile back at the guy. It's important that you send just a fleeting smile. Short and brief.
If the guy should come over, BE CAREFUL not to seem too eager to grab him. Guys like to 'chase' so let him.
For more info on all this you can contact me by email if you like: gmude2000@yahoo.co.uk
2007-02-22 19:48:55
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answered by gmude2000 2
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Do you want to get a guy to be crazy for you, just as you are for him? You have to be very patient, especially if you feel like you want to take it to a level beyond just curious interest. Here are some helpful hints on how to charm a guy, while still being yourself.
@ be yourself, most guys like so hate it when you try and be someone else your not, they prefer the real you.
@ get his attention, come on the guy ain't going fancy you if he don't you even bloody exist, go on go out there and get that guys attention.
@ make some conversation with him, talk to him mate, take his best interest and start a simple chat with him, next minute youll know hell be asking for you number gal.
@ crack a joke, having a good sense of humor always make everything better. hat doesn't mean you should be a giggling fool, laughing at everything that crosses your path. Rather, learn how to find the ironies in life and point them out in a witty and interesting way. It's much easier to like someone who you can have a good laugh with once in a while. go on give in a bit
@ Be an all-around great person. If you focus on being a clean, motivated, kind, and humorous individual, how can anyone resist? I'm sure you understand what i mean don't you?
@ and also have patience, things like this always takes time. you cant just click your fingers with this and that and expect hes all over you, no way be patient. OK?
@ 8. Pay attention. Eventually he'll tell you one way or another whether or not he's interested in reciprocating your affection.
@ and last of all ill tell you what not to do, even if the guy is so hot or whatever, never go out there and take them girls advice about go out there and wear your most sexiest dress and pull out your boobs and show him your body blaaaaah what ever, if you do that you'll only make a fool of yourself, hell jus be like this gal is jus too desperate, shes trying a bit too much.
i really hope this helps. remember go out there and be calm, be patient and one day hell be on to you gal, im sure he will.
2007-02-22 21:53:24
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answered by Anonymous
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You want someone to like you who is HOT. Now, your thinking superficial. Yeah he can be HOT as you explain, but he can also be the biggest dick head, egotistical man you have ever met. Don't just focus on looks, do you want a guy to just be with you for your looks? First of all, be yourself more than anything, and down to earth, don't be fake and don't try too hard to please and don't be desperate because they will get sick of you really fast. Be charming but not slutty, If your looking to just get laid and have a good time, that's not hard, most women can find that, but if your really looking for a decent man, then you need to be able to bring something into the relationship as well, besides a cute face. Good luck.
2007-02-22 19:50:00
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answered by RAW AND GRIM \,,/ 4
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Well if you want a hot guy better make sure you're pretty hot your self
guys are visual beings so make sure you can catch his attention with your looks
if you succeed in that department make sure you have the right personality and the brains to hold a good conversation
2007-02-22 19:55:49
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answered by steadyeddie 2
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If you want a guy that looks hott to like you, you should also look hott. The only way to look hot is to have a really hott body, a gorgeous face, smell good and good breath.
2007-02-23 02:28:37
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answered by Shay Honey 1
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Guys tend to like girls that flirt and act a bit slutty but if you are looking for a longterm relationship the best advice I can give you is be yourself. Remember, looks fade inner beauty doesnt!
2007-02-22 19:40:07
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answered by toymod 5
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trust me it is my personal experience the more you run after a guy the more he will run away from you. best is to stay at a certain distance and let them take a notice of you them self. pay full attention to your grooming.attitude its all about attitude.
2007-02-22 19:38:53
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answered by peaceout 2
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Have a nice personality, nice figure, be cute, and have great legs! You do have great legs, right?
2007-02-23 07:52:38
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answered by Anonymous
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