Okay, I am bi. So i like guys and girls....Anyway...there is this girl at my school, who I know is bi too and is also single, I want to ask her out so badly but then I got some info from one of our friends, that the girl's mother was in the hospital and not doing to good. I was wandering if I should ask her out or should I wait until her mom is either gone or doing better? I was sorta thinking that if we did hook up I could be there for her more...like I mean it's always good to have support for hard times like these...what should I do?
2007-02-22 18:13:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I am not being cold, I don't know if her mom will or will not pull through...
2007-02-22 18:20:10 · update #1
And please NO stupid answers..this is serious!!!
2007-02-22 18:22:39 · update #2
What you need to do is let her know you're feelings. Tell her that you know her mother is in the hospital and that even if she doesn't want to date you that you two can still be friends, and you'll be there for her should she want/ need to talk.
2007-02-22 18:24:28 · answer #1 · answered by Jinxy B 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Two ways to play it: Be a really good friend during this hard time and hope it goes to the next level or make a move upfront and hope she's interested in dating right now. I'm not sure exactly which way could get you the girl, but both have a potential to work.
2007-02-23 04:36:38 · answer #2 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get friendly with her first. Help her when she needs someone to help her in the situation like the situation she is in now. She will automatically come out with you once her mother will come out of the hospital (Dead or alive)
2007-02-22 18:28:54 · answer #3 · answered by newsundersky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well hey you could start talking to her and let her know you're sorry about her mom, and a few days later ask her out! Goodluck =)
2007-02-22 18:25:29 · answer #4 · answered by ♠lAUGhTERZ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
befriend her...she could probably use all the support she can get right now...just don't push her.
2007-02-22 18:46:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋