My Boyfriend is acting very distant and rarely calling me. When I talk to him he has a bit of an attitude and we sit there quiet for a while. When I describe it, it sounds like Im being dumb but, I can tell he is being different. When I call he's randomly not home even though I tell him Im going to call him at that specific time and then I dont talk to him until hours later. He told me it was because he's inbetween jobs right now but I dont feel like that is the problem. What do you think it is?
2007-02-22 17:31:38 · 10 answers · asked by The Worrywart 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He says that he's still in love with me but, its been like this for about a week.
2007-02-22 17:35:54 · update #1
He was supposed to call me when I got off of work at 9:30 but its 11 and he still hasnt called.
2007-02-22 18:05:44 · update #2
possibly but dont rush into it he could just be as he says between jobs
2007-02-22 17:34:52 · answer #1 · answered by Lostfairytale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the best way to know where things are headed is to do the same that he is doing to you... Do call him let him call you... Don't go looking for him let him go looking for you... If he does maybe he has somethings going on in his life right now and is just a little worried if not then maybe it's time to call it quit... Cause what good is a boyfriend if he can't be there for you... even a friend for that matter... I know it's hard when you really care about someone to leave them alone for awhile but just try it just might be the answer your looking for... I hope that everything works out for the best...
2007-02-23 01:42:29 · answer #2 · answered by evepineda02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your gut feeling tell you? However do not overeact maybe it is true that he feels down because of being inbetween jobs, so try and give him some space to be on his own and figure out his own dilema, it seems thats what he wants and now he sees you as the obstacle the one who doesnt understand his situation. Well and if later on you find out "fact" that is, that he is cheating on you then you can decide what to do with the ordeal. For now give it time.
2007-02-23 01:37:58 · answer #3 · answered by Tahisha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not too sure about cheating, but ending the relationship sounds more like it. I just don't think he wants to be responsible for the break-up, he want you to do it. What a baby for a man!!! I hate games, but I would probably start being unavailable myself. Let him wonder, and see if he even still cares much. It might be a little scary for you to really find out, but be strong, your worth being treated like this.
2007-02-23 01:39:22 · answer #4 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! yes! been there! its horrible and i know what ur going threw! Do not stay with him!! it only gets worse!!!!
im tellin u right now.. no matter what anyone tells u about this ur going to do what u want anyway. You know u should leave him but u love him right? so u stay .. and it gets worse pretty soon u try to make urself stop calling him.. that only last a lil while when he dosent call u, and ur back calling . Please think about it.. yes he is cheaing .. he dosent desurve u and ur only going to hurt more in the end when u finally do leave him!
2007-02-23 01:39:39 · answer #5 · answered by angeliss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop please for gods sake being so selfish, this guy is depresed of the new job and yet you are so nudging,what do you women want he has already told you he loves yet you dont want to believe him,the way you are acting you will end up losing that gentleman.
we are not that cheap that when we keep quiet we are only cheating on you!!!
best of luck.
2007-02-23 01:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by mini-haven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a personal chat together.
Take him to a restaurent or some other places,
Open chat will give you the clear ideas which will enable you to conclude on somethings.
Have nice life. My wishes too...!
2007-02-23 01:37:45 · answer #7 · answered by chan4k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not live love with you anymore or he is seeing someone else
2007-02-23 01:34:36 · answer #8 · answered by PD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably not
he just wants space?? not into you anymore maybe
ask him
2007-02-23 01:34:19 · answer #9 · answered by blah blah blah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your women's intuition
2007-02-23 01:37:07 · answer #10 · answered by HeSaid"MAMA" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋