Or likes you more than a friend.
He calls me about once a week. We usually talk about random things. I have known him for about seven years. His marriage has been rocky the most of it....for understandable reasons.I have even met his wife before. I think he mainly stays for the children. He left me a couple of flirty comments on my page. He asks me out occasionally.....usually in group settings. I just kinda get that feeling...he likes me more than friends.
2007-02-22 17:25:46 · 11 answers · asked by SexyMama97 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I completely understand were you all are coming from. Like I said we have been friend's for seven years....never has it crossed the line. My best friend is friends with his wife...so what he has told me about there marriage. Has also been told to me by my friend. If he was going to get my pants...don't ya think he would have seven yearts ago. His wife came to one of my parties...she even brought a gift. I am no stranger to her. Our kids have played together. He left his wife and was in the processing of getting a divorce. Every time he would leave her....the last two times. SHe would say she was on the pill....and they would sleep together and she got pregnant both times. I am no homewrecker. But I understand the depth of his situation.
2007-02-22 17:40:06 · update #1
Also I was not even around when they split.....
2007-02-22 17:43:31 · update #2
Exactly......I have respect for his marriage. Like I said we are just friends. I would never want to come in between there marriage. The only thing we have ever done is hugged. I was just curious if he was flirting. Like I said he he wanted in my pants....ya think he would have waited seven years?
2007-02-22 17:46:12 · update #3
Also they married real young....she was pregnant. Then later revealed that is was probably his best friend's.Not saying it is right to stay for the children.
2007-02-22 17:53:50 · update #4
Yes I have children, but I am not married.
2007-02-23 01:25:22 · update #5
home wrecker dont encourage him he's married
2007-02-22 17:29:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Yes! The writing is on the wall, bold and clear for anyone who wants to read...that he likes you more than just a friend. I guess you cannot read it because you are the wall he is writing on. How come all the talk is about him being married? You mentioned something about you guys kids playing together, so doesn't that mean you are married too? Why are you guys courting disaster? Well I am not going to play GOD and tell you what to do and what not to do so to answer your question yes he is flirting with you.
2007-02-22 18:50:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop this immediatly. Cut that friendship off unless you want to be responsible for destroying a marriage. You know he is married and you know he is flirting with you, you don't need us to tell you that. You don't need us to tell you that what you are doing is wrong either. He is married that is that. How do you know his marriage is so rocky? Did he tell you that? Did you never hear of men lying so they can get into your panites? Get away girl or you will be sorry and be the cause of so much pain. Search your heart and then do the right thing.
2007-02-22 17:30:08 · answer #3 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be up front with him and tell him how you feel. Do not flirt! If he is at all attached to you then he will take this the wrong way and try and pursue this more. It may be that he is look for attention since his wife is pregnant. Honestly I just went through something like this with my husband and my best friend. It has not ended well. She flirted back and he thought that she was interested but really she did not want to hurt his feelings(she story). Just be careful and be honest with him from the start!
2016-03-15 23:50:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say that guy is attempting to do more than flirt with you. I'd tell him to grow up and stop acting like a spoilt brat. He is an adult with a wife and children. If he put his mind to it his marriage would not be on the rocks. Little wonder society is going to the dogs with guys like that around. Get rid of him and find yourself either a single man or a young widower with a couple of children who need to have a woman around the place. Start your own family with that widower.
2007-02-22 17:35:12 · answer #5 · answered by Christopher P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But because of your morals and good intentions, you leave it at that, right? Just what a married man wants, is another female flirting with him, while his wife is home feeling miserable because "THEY" can't seem to work out their differences together! Something you sure wouldn't want if it were reversed and you were the wife sitting home...
2007-02-22 17:33:14 · answer #6 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel it, it's happening.Period. If he is having small problems at home, he will f*** around. You get involved, you ARE wrecking something that took years to build. You wreck something that you shouldn't have, someone is going to be pissed. At the end of it all, 2 against 1. You lose. If you win, you get all the left over problems as a GRAND prize with children that have a right to see their real mom, who will see you often. Hopefully she does not own a firearm! Good Luck!
2007-02-22 17:37:52 · answer #7 · answered by Andres N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you have any self-respect? Don't encourage him. Do you really want to be the reason for their children going through all that pain and anger? Do you really want to start something with a man that's such a coward that he won't even try to work at his marriage and the vows he made? He's not worth it!
2007-02-22 17:37:39 · answer #8 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he wants you and if you're smart you will stay just friends. at least until he gets divorced because if you do anything else it could cause a lot of problems for both of you.
2007-02-22 17:41:03 · answer #9 · answered by mrs garfield 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and you wanna get involved with a married guy for what reason?
2007-02-22 17:28:40 · answer #10 · answered by happygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋