I m depressed to the end of death, my husband is having a trapped affair for past 3 years. what i must do?

Answer 1

First:: get rid of husband

second:: take him to the cleaners, as another person mentioned..

third:: go out and have a great time with your friends.....

and if you're still depressed over this cheating creep...go see your doctor...because if it's clinical depression, you most certainly need help...

good luck..live life.....and be happy.....CREEPS ARE NOT WORTH BEING DEPRESSED OVER..

Answer 2

You are making yourself depressed. Get up and do something with yourself. Tell your husband to go. As a matter of fact, pack his bags.

No disrespect but I bet you don't work or have an education. That's the only way you would be in a trapped affair. If this is you, I suggest you go back to school (you've never too old for school) and start preparing yourself for a divorce. If you divorce your husband, you get half of whatever you guys own plus alimony.

If you have gained weight due to your depression, I would suggest you join the gym and start working on looking great. DON'T LOSE YOURSELF. What type of woman are you, if you let a man get you like this? Does he care? obviously not. If he did, then he wouldn't be hurting you. Men are for themselves. You need to do something with yourself. I would've left him a long time ago. Do you love and respect yourself? Then leave him.

For the record, is that piece of **** worth taking your life? I got news for you, he isn't. What makes him better than you?

Answer 3

umm whats a trapped affair???? well i know that any affair is wrong and you should not be depressed you should get angry give an ultimatum and get out . how long have you known of the affair ??? if you have let it go on for 3 years then you have helped yourself to these depths of depression. when a spouse has an affair they are not concerned for what they do to you. or how you feel its all about them so the only person that can help you is you . doesnt it make you angry that he has the power to not on ly cheat on you and your vows . but he can make your life not worth living. find yourself and find a man that deserves you

Answer 4

Trapped affair, I think, somebody is blackmailing your husband to continue the relation with her. When you know about the relation, your husband need not care for the consequences of leaving the relationship, as you will always be with him. But ensure that your husband knows that you have come to know about the relation.
Otherwise you discuss the thing with your husband and settle it. There is no point in continuing with the depression. If he is more interested in the relation than you, then there is no point in continuing your relation as wife.

Answer 5

Wah Sunilaji kya baat hai. Your hubby is having an affair for the past 3 years yet your defending him by using the word "trapped" and still remaining with him. If i was in your place, i wud have kicked his cheating a--, that very instant. How can you still be with him beats me but then Sunilaji for someone as wonderful and loyal like you, you shudn't waste your life with a "bewafa" like your hubby. And pls stop defending him and his actions. And finally Sunilaji, leave him for God's sake. Have some pride and dignity and give your luv to another who's more deserving.

Answer 6

Why should you despair so much when you know of the affair and I hope surely so. Three years is long enough a period. You should try to be independent, on your own and look at your life afresh ahead. There is no need to think of ending your life for some one else's trap.

Answer 7

First- No man is work being depressed about. Husband or not, if he's willing to cheat on you then he doesnt deserve you. I know it may seem hard now, but this isnt your fault. Its his. God gave people agency (the right to make up their own minds about stuff) and asked that they use it wisely, but lets face it, nobody really does. Couples therepy and the demand that he leaves that little strumpet and if that cant straighten him out then leave. If you have kids then thats a little more complicated. It still has to be your decision, but he needs to know that he's ruined your trust. He did something wrong, now he gets to live with the consequences. Good luck!

Answer 8

he is not trapped he is just telling u this, he has the power to end it whenever he chooses, he just chooses not to. if it has been going on 3 years, than it must be a serious thing, that he may not want to give up. if he won't give her up u need to get out of it and move on. this is doing your self esteem no good at all, as in marriage we have the right to have an exclusive relationship with that person, if we have to share with someone else, it just isn't worth it to be in anymore. he makes the decisions here, he could leave it if he wanted to.

Answer 9

WTF is a trapped affair? This sounds like some line he is handing you so he can continue his affair but still keep you hanging on. Has the 'ho got him locked in a cage or something? How is he "trapped" in an affair? Why are you still around? It is way past time to stop letting him destroy your self esteem and stomp on your heart. If he is trapped in an affair, you need to get a key to set yourself free.

Answer 10

I do not know what a trapped affair is but why stick around him when you can find another man who treats you the way you want to be treated and that is with respect.

Answer 11

Trapped, huh? Boy has he got you brainwashed. How long did it take to convince you of that? If he's so called 'trapped' its because that's exactly where he wants to be. The man has it made...you AND the little trap door spider! Be strong and do yourself an enormous favor,LEAVE HIM and never look back! I'll just bet he doesn't think you have it in you. You know, you are only a doormat if you allow yourself to be one.