There is this guy that i like as a FRIEND, but he likes me, and everyone knows that he likes me, and i know it, but i dont like him, and i am scared that he is gonna ask me out, because i love him as a friend, and i have fun with him , and i dont want to hurt hima and make evrything we ever do aquward, and i reeeeellllllly dont wanna hurt him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!......he might not even ask me, but i am still always scared he will!!!!
2007-02-22 16:17:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ahh!! This is an old dilemma!! Well, from past experiences, I can only say that if he asks u out, do not says yes in order to please him!! It will probably make u very sad for a few days, but soon u'll realize that it was the best thing to do, coz there is no point in committing when u are not interested in that person. Tell ur friend that u love him as a friend, and that u do not want to hurt him, but u don't c any point in going out with him, since u've never felt 'that way' about him. It sounds cheesy, but it works.
And u shudn't really be scared of anything, if he tells u about it, it's gud- at least he's being honest! Face the facts, and tell him that u will always be there for him..since u do not want him to get hurt, it's taken that u guyz are really gud friends..make sure that it doesn't affect ur friendship =)
2007-02-22 16:24:42 · answer #1 · answered by whatever88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just let him know that your not into him in that way and that it is really sweet that he would think of you like that... But, right now you just want to hang out and be friends and who knows maybe one day in the future things could change... If you both can agree on that you should have no problems staying friends...
2007-02-22 16:23:10 · answer #2 · answered by evepineda02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he asks you out or whatever, just tell him you like the relationship you two have now and you wouldn't want anything to ruin it. If he's a true friend then he'll understand and won't push the subject.
2007-02-22 16:22:34 · answer #3 · answered by Nick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he ever asks you and pops that question always be honest and dont make him suffer any longer, be cruel to be kind, you can say that your friendships means a lot more to me , and it would be unfair to him if you know deep down inside you dont feel the same way he does
2007-02-22 16:21:49 · answer #4 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does ask you, just tell him you don't want to risk losing him as a friend by making it into something more serious. You don't need to be mean, just be honest.
2007-02-22 16:22:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him (nicely) that you are just friends, and that you do not believe you'll have feelings beyond friendship for him. Do not tell him to forget about you, just tell him to consider other girls.
2007-02-22 16:21:42 · answer #6 · answered by d3adbc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does simply tell him you love your friendship with him and wouldn't ever want to jeopardize that relationship with one that could cost you both the friendship.
-NmD!
2007-02-22 16:23:42 · answer #7 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say that you just want to be his friend and do not want to go any further. say that you'll still have his back and be his friend
2007-02-22 16:23:12 · answer #8 · answered by Chris N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say you want to stay friends
2007-02-22 16:21:17 · answer #9 · answered by Brannen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋