i feel forgotten...replaced and all alone how do i deal with this? why i fell this way is too long to list, so based on just this info do you have any suggestions on how to cope with feeling as i do?
2007-02-22 16:05:25 · 6 answers · asked by leens f 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
because of someone
2007-02-22 16:33:22 · update #1
small details
2007-02-22
16:37:35 ·
update #2
-im 13 yr old girl, and an only child
-its my mom and her new boyfriend (that is my dad by the way) that make me feel forgotten. its like ive been replaced by him. and im tired of crying and talking to them
:( i dunno....i think maybe it's just apart of life.... but ppl arent gonna run after u, u kno....u have to make an effort to put urself out there..... :)
2007-02-22 16:11:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If its because of someone or something...Build your self confidence and become a leader...Don't feel alone...there's plenty of others out there for you...Maybe its depression...Go talk to your local therapist, psychologist. If not why not a friend, or family member. I've felt lonely before...thats when i built my self confidence...Even though i am a bit crazy...its what keeps me sane and happy. Don't feel like you are alone...because thats the last thing on this earth.
Maybe its time for some new friends...and i mean socially.
Not online...Unless you can cope with that.
2007-02-22 16:12:36 · answer #2 · answered by Mhernandez91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh, that sucks I know. I'm sorry you're feeling this way.
About the only thing I know to tell you is to not blame yourself. Blame it all on whoever the person/s are forgetting/replacing you LOL
No, seriously........I hate that. I have sacrificed the last two years of my life to take care of my brother and s-i-ls kids, and I'm always last on their list. ALWAYS. My s-i-l will forget to call me to tell me their not coming, or she'll forget to tell me when something is going on like a doctors appointment or something. And I won't even get started on how many times over the last two years, I've been asked if its okay if they don't pay me.
So yeah, being forgotten, in any situation sucks bigtime. Just know that you're NOT forgettable and if someone IS forgetting you...then THEY are not worth YOUR time.
Good luck! (((((Hugs)))))
2007-02-22 16:12:58 · answer #3 · answered by L ♥ L ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to live a new life. go outside and do new things that you wouldn't normally do. talk to people that you would not normally talk to. just be out of the ordinary. if you want to feel wanted. make yourself wanted!
2007-02-22 16:12:28 · answer #4 · answered by cognition 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you can use this opportunity to learn more about yourself.being alone is not always so bad,you re free to roam and discover you're life and maybe see things about yourself that you normally wouldn't when things are going well
2007-02-22 16:49:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out and meet new people...go to a nice church get involved...no self pity...you need to live...get out and live! Join a bowling league something....there is life out there...go find it!
2007-02-22 16:13:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋