I moved from lousisana to California when i just started middle school. I was very popular and happy at my old school and had great friends and my family was much more toghter and happy. Then we moved her and now I feel sad nearly all the time, My twin brother is a preppy jock in school who everyone likes and im a bookworm whom nobody notices. My brother tease me and calls me gay and so do his friends because I hate sports and hang out with girls alot, (I don't know why Im naturally drawn to them and like them). Everyone ignores me and calls me annoying even when Im trying really hard not to be. i have a few friends who I like and are true but now nearly all of them are mad at me. I recently heard that one of my friends in Louisisana has started cutting herself and one is on drugs and that's not them at all. im angry and sad all the time and feel like its all my fault this is happening can anyone help? (Oh yeah and my mom just got remarried to a guy who hates me so im even sadder).
2007-02-22 16:03:06 · 5 answers · asked by g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am so sorry that you are going through such a rough time. Pray to God for things to get better in your life. I think if you can't depend on others to say and do nice things for you, I think you should start to telling yourself good things about you called affirmations. When you look in the mirror tell yourself that "you are a good person with a good heart and everyone likes me because I am lovable." Keep repeating this at least five times, three times per day. You will be amazed how better things will get and how better you will feel. Also, I think you should confront your brother in front of your mother to resolve any issues that you two may have. Good luck and take care.
2007-02-22 16:16:21 · answer #1 · answered by sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
New place? Make a new start. This is your opportunity to make an impression on all of them. Dont try to judge yourself by what others do or are. Be you, the unique person that God made. YOu obviously have something goin for you if you had alot of friends before. Just do California style. The guy that married your mom, needs to be talked to. Tell your mom how you feel. She should not be allowing you to be made to feel that way.
I am sure your friends miss you but, just keep in touch by mail, phone or email. Just let it happen. Smile say hello, and let it take off from that, your personality from LA will shine thru
2007-02-23 00:09:50 · answer #2 · answered by wingedladyk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I understand the way you feel I once moved to and I didn't know anyone at my new school and most importantally I didn't know my new community.But I made up my mind that I will get through school and all the hardships life has to through at me.Dont worry about what people say about you I have alot of friends that are girls also and when people say stuff to me I just say SO dont let it bother you just get through school and keep on reading those books because one day it will all catch up to you and all your hard work will eventualy pay off.And for your friend who cuts herself,just talk to her on the phone and try to get through to her that life has many great things to offer and she should live it to the fullest.0 and dont worry about the guy who hates you because it will eventually come back and haunt him.I hope this advice will help you.
2007-02-23 00:15:18 · answer #3 · answered by austinb92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can make your own friends and start a clique. there are a lot of preps at my school 2. the asian mafia(My clique is just as numerous): bookworms but really aggressive. they are really protective and smart. the jocks at my school are retards. find friends who will not turn on u and protect you no matter what happens.
2007-02-23 00:10:28 · answer #4 · answered by Chris N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-23 00:08:30 · answer #5 · answered by ebonycorine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋