Some advice on haveing sex for the first time.?

Question

Anything would be great, thanks.

Ideas of what to do when having sex.

Answer 1

Condoms (can prevent std's and pregnancy though of course is not 100% effective but better that not using any) if you are a male and birth control if you are a female. Also be absolutely sure you are ready and do not let anyone pressure you if you feel pressured to do it. Also, make sure you are ready. You do not want to regret doing it because you weren't ready. Also know birth control does not prevent std's. Condoms however, do prevent many forms of std's. Not trying to scare you but you want to be safe.

Answer 2

First of all, make sure you want to do it, and that this is the person you trust to do it with. I know the media makes it seem like no big deal, but it is. You can't get it back. I was 17 when I had sex for the first time, but it was with the guy I had been in love with for a year, and we are still together. So it was special. make sure it's special so you don't regret it.

Second, make sure you have protection. You don't want to get pregnant or get an STD (even if you are each others' first, get in the habit of using protection, because you may not be each others' last), so the best thing to do would be to use condoms with spermicide. You can get these at Wal-Mart or any drug store. They will prevent the semen from getting in your vagina and also kill the semen so that even if they do get in, they can't get you pregnant. But still remember nothing is 100% effective, so know what your plan will be if you do have an accident...and know if this boy will support you.

Using condoms doesn't have to ruin the mood. Read the instructions on the packet and put the condom on him yourself. it's safe, smart, and sexy. To help you relax so it'll hurt less, have your partner give you some foreplay, such as fingering you, giving you oral sex, or making out for a while first. The best position for your first time would be for you to lie on your back, because that way he can gently ease in you...it hurts less if he's gentle and if you're not the one making the movements. Once you get into it, just gently rise yours hips in rhythm with his. I swear you'll know what to do when the time comes. No girl has ever been bad at sex, to my knowledge! he's not expecting you to be an acrobat your first time either. Best of luck to you! Be safe and smart, but have fun too! I hope I answered your questions!

Answer 3

Make absolutely positively sure that this is what you want not want he wants,peer pressure.Because this is something very special and it's not like a shirt ,meaning it can't be returned.But if you are sure,use protection if you think he will try and be sneaky(take off the condom because they say it will hurt you more,or it doesn't feel the same.) they will say all type of stuff but stand your ground."no glove no love".Relax,I not going to lie to you it will hurt.But try not to tense up because it will hurt worse.I lost my virginity to my husband,and what worked for me is breathing nice long breaths.Take it slow because if he doesn't and this being your first time he can tear some off your tissue.When you are a virgin you will bleed not heavily but spotting,your girlfriend will smell like rubber so i advise using Summers Eve Intimate wash.Make sure he gets you moist down there so it won't hurt as bad,if you use lubricant make sure it's water bases because some lubricants can actually ripe condoms because of the friction.And i think that about sums it up.Oh one more thing,If you are going to have sex make sure it's somewhere you'll be comfortable at not in a car .Good luck and i really hope that you have really thought this through.

Answer 4

Firstly- make sure you are ready.
Secondly- make sure that the guy is right for you.
In 2 years are still going to think he is the right guy.
Don't make it a big deal otherwise it might be a big let down.
Don't expect it to be good, Very few first timers actually orgasm.
Expect it to hurt a little.
Have forepaly first.
Take the pill and use a condom. You don't want to get pregnant or get an std on your first time. Good luck but be sure its a huge move

Answer 5

WEAR A CONDOM!! no matter what he tells you- make sure he wears a condom!

relax- enjoy each other and the moment.

your bodies are going to make funny noises- this is normal dont be embarassed- if you guys cant laugh together it wont be fun for either of you. in other words- dont take it soo seriously- the act of sex i mean not the occasion.

make sure its someone you really care about and really cares about you. make sure you trust and respect each other.

go slow- its going to hurt a little the first time. make sure you are both aroused and that you are wet.

have fun!

Answer 6

Why would you want advice from people on Yahoo! Answers. You should be having this discussion with the person you are planning on having sex with. You are to young to be having sex!

Answer 7

Hi, the only thing i want to say from a general point, is take it easy. Some people hurt the first time, others dont. Usually you do have a small bleed when your virginity is broken.

Try to relax as much as possible and don't think about anything bgut you and your partner.

All the best!

carla

Answer 8

Yeah, go slow. Make sure you REALLY love this person, or you'll regret it. It's more than likely going to hurt, and probably won't feel good until the second time. Use a condom and you should get on the pill. Um, enjoy? Haha.

Answer 9

I am an obgyn nurse, and here's my advice when girls ask me.
Make sure it's with someone you care about
Make sure it's in a comfortable bed in a place you feel comfortable
Go pee before and after so you avoid bladder infections which happen ALOT the first time.
Lots of foreplay so you are plenty lubricated so things slide in and out easier.
Missionary position definitely
Shower after
Use responsible birth control, condoms, pill, etc.
Relax...the more relaxed you are...the less tense the muscles are, the more you'll enjoy it.
Don't be bummed if you don't climax vaginally...most women don't until after a while! Clitoris stimulation is best for women.

Good luck!

Hope your guy realizes how lucky he is!

Answer 10

Sex is like a secret, the fewer people who know it the more valuable it becomes. I chose to wait until marriage and I couldn't be happier. I don't have to compare her to anyone else, I don't have to worry about getting sick, or pregnant, or worry about my relationship changing because of it. If you wait you regret nothing. You get no such guarantees buy doing it before marriage.