i notice it when i do laundry. its not a significant amount, but there are spots on the inside of his boxers and he 12 1/2 hour shifts, so hes always on the go. i've confronted him several times, and he doesnt know what it is...he said he would go to the doctor for it, oh and our sex life is one of an 80 y/o..... :( just wanted some men's input on this
2007-02-22 15:27:23 · 8 answers · asked by thegurlnextdoor 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
i notice it when i do laundry. its not a significant amount, but there are spots on the inside of his boxers and he works 3-12 1/2 hour shifts, so hes always on the go( he would have to be really slick to cheat in his line of profession). i've confronted him several times, and he doesnt know what it is...he said he would go to the doctor for it, oh and our sex life is one of an 80 y/o..... :( just wanted some men's input on this...he prefers intimacy over sex. he cums within 1 minute when we do have sex. not sure if being "touched" by an uncle when he was young, and being in iraq for 14 months and the stress from everyday issues has anything to do with the sex issue, but the white discharge is what im concerned about
2007-02-22 15:46:45 · update #1
White spots and discharge are not normal for
mature guys. That is, they are usually aware
when they climax.
Yeah, he should probably see a doctor.
2007-02-22 15:30:45 · answer #1 · answered by Elana 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe it makes the slightest difference in these issues whether he's circumcised or not. They sound like spots of ejaculate or pre-ejaculate, which can be caused either by leftover ejaculate in the urethra coming out a few minutes after ejaculation (masturbation/sex) or pre-ejaculate may come out if he's really aroused (turned on) by something. This shouldn't be any different just because he's intact. And it isn't smegma (which is difficult to get in the first place providing he takes five seconds to slide it back and wash) because that doesn't "leak".
As for your sex life, you two should talk about it on how to get it going more active and fun for you two. I'm sure you can think of creative and fun things to two between you two. I'm sure you can use the extra skin to your advantage with new techniques and so on. Sex life is really a relationship issue.
2007-02-22 15:38:48 · answer #2 · answered by Jorge 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he should go to a doctor. Unless its semen and since he's always on the go, he might masturbate or he has an affair.
I don't want to put things in your head, you know him best and he's probably very tired and is leaking a bit of the clear stuff. Happens !
But if you're worried make an appointment for him so he has to go.
2007-02-22 15:34:09 · answer #3 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i myself doubt it is dried semen, i am thinknig more towards smegma. Smegma is not abnormal, but it is also not sanitary.
smegma is a substance that kreeps up udner the foreskin over time. it is a combination of dirst, bacteria, semen, pre-ejculative fluid, and urine. It is
keeping clean can very easily eliviate this. pull back the forskin, and wash the penis atleast once a day.
smegma is less common with circumsized men.
2007-02-22 15:46:25 · answer #4 · answered by mrzwink 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either he does not clean often enough and is growing a substance known a smegma under his forskin or he is cheating on you.
2007-02-22 15:32:31 · answer #5 · answered by SICX13 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. Unless he masturbates in his underwear.
2007-02-22 15:31:06 · answer #6 · answered by Daniel M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not touching that one.
2007-02-22 15:33:49 · answer #7 · answered by Steamysteam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop! you are making me sick.
2007-02-22 15:35:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋