If a man has an orgasm and the woman doesnt cause he cant finish the job...What does this say about the man..Does what im trying to say make sense lol.
2007-02-22 15:10:59 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Did he try? If he did, it doesn't say anything - at least he tried.
2007-02-22 15:13:51 · answer #1 · answered by bluenbri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, when he had his orgasm he did finish the job, at least as far as he can with that organ. Maybe you needed more foreplay, maybe one or other of you had something else on their mind, maybe you could have suggested continuing just for your satisfaction in some other way.
The fact itself doesn't signify anything. Next time, different story and different ending.
As a generalization, women are slower to reach orgasm than men and men are not designed for multiple orgasms so if both achieving an orgasm is your aim the only sure way is for the woman to be brought to orgasm first by oral or manual play and for sex to follow where the man is sure to orgasm and the woman can possibly experience a second orgasm.
2007-02-22 15:47:32 · answer #2 · answered by John B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many ways for a man to give a woman an orgasm. He should try to please her to the fullest first before he gets his. If he does this he will not only make her happy but be happy in return. If I had a man like this I would think he was being selfish and not caring if I achieved orgasm or not. I would not want a man like that.
2007-02-22 16:33:35 · answer #3 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because you are saying a "man has an orgasm" then saying "he can't finish the job"....that doesn't make sense at all. Look, if she isn't having an orgasm, that is her problem. Now, if he goes down on her for more than 1/2 an hour and she has taught him how and shown him where her "place" is then again...her problem not his.
2007-02-22 15:15:00 · answer #4 · answered by LM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes this does make sense actually. I think this says alot about the man. Obviously the woman is happy whether she finishes or not. HOWEVER my husband always tries to have me finish and then he does afterwards and he loves it lol and so do i:) This is the way it should be:) Both should be happy and satisfied during love making. Not just the man or just the woman. To me there definitley is something missing or noe being done right if both persons are not satisfied and happy.
2007-02-22 15:18:55 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't mean anything towards the man. Its just the fact that men most of the time cant control it like a woman can. Me and my man been together 12 years and enjoy sex a lot him a little more then me but that dose not mean i get mine off all the time. I enjoy just making him ***. Some times its not all about the women but a lot about the man. If you think that you may get yours first , let your girl on top so she can get hers first then you finish it off. I will bet you anything that she sees alot better that way then the other way.
2007-02-23 12:04:04 · answer #6 · answered by brenda72804@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly...more men finish than women. It is just harder for women to orgasm. The only thing this says about the man is - he's a man. And I don't mean that in a bad way. Why not try directing him. If you aren't telling him what you want...how does he know?
2007-02-22 15:19:05 · answer #7 · answered by trexsky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt say anything. Its actually normal. It just means he cant last as long as the women can. A suggestion would be for him to masturbate first, that way it takes longer to come the second time. Other than that Its no big deal. Hes a man not a pornstar
2007-02-22 15:16:51 · answer #8 · answered by Snowman8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes 2 to reach an orgasm. I think each partner needs to be present in order to reach an orgasm. Chemistry, right timing and performance all play a good deal in this.
2007-02-22 15:15:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men have all kinds of reasons they can't do the deed . Drugs especially alcohol ,caffiene, soda. All these. They wouldn't be in the sack if they didn't want to but sometimes thier job is a little more physical & if they r tired ... hum..........l!!!!!!!Physically they r wired different They need thier blood to flow without distraction.If a woman can't find fufillment there may be a relationship problem.
2007-02-22 15:23:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens a lot in the beginning of a relationship. You will make things work together in time. In the meantime, you have the option of oral to help her reach orgasm.
2007-02-22 15:15:18 · answer #11 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋