i feel so depresed.?

Question

i feel there is to much pressure on me. i fear of not graduating next year. the sport i play soccer is the only thing im good at and what makes me feal better. my love life sucks the girl i love dosent like me. and i really dont get a long with my famaly. i also feal like im losing my friends what should i do.

Answer 1

It is natural. You can see a big change coming with graduation and you are unsure of the future.

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Answer 2

Explain your feelings to your doctor, he will probably put you on zanax, it will take a couple of weeks and then you'll start feeling a little happier and more content with your life. Sounds to me like you need a change. I don't know if you're talking about graduating high school or college. If your longing for something different and adventurous, you may want to check out the Coast Guard. You get to travel and live in small little beach towns, there are a lot of opportunity's there, anything from helicopter pilot to search and rescue. It really is a great way of life and they train you. My husband joined the Coast Guard when he was 17 and retired with a nice pension at 37, never to have to go back to work again. Good Luck. Hope things improve for you soon, your just stuck in a rut, there are so many great things ahead for you, don't let the world get you down.

Answer 3

Hey, pal u r losing confidence in yr life. Could be due to some reason in yr family or it just a life crisis yr r going thru along the path of growing up. Don't worry is common among everyone of us. U r behaving this way because in 1 way or another u r feeling being victimise by something in yr life right now and it seem like u can't control or do anything abt it. I can understand that but still fortunately, u still hv soccer to make u feel gd so make gd use of it, keep playing to relieve those unpleasant moments. Everyone got pressure and whats make us different from others is how we handle it. A rich man could hv pressure for not making enough milions to satisfy himself or an average man hv pressure for not making enough money to pay rent. Which is more serious? Depends on how u take it right? Learning to control pressure is an art which if u can master it, u can ensure happiness within u which is so precious no money can buy!
Love life is the least u shld worry. Cos each of us will go thru those unpotential relationship so as to pick up valuable experience that will horned our skills so we can meet the heavenly one when she/he comes along. I always say, if its yours, it will be yours, take it slow if u want a real gd one.
When u lose confidence u could lose everything include yr frens etc. Only if u could find the recipe for overcoming yr presure, then u find contenment. When u find contenment in yrself, u find peace. Peace will lead to happiness . When u r at this stage, yr face and body will glow with that confidence that attracts anyone that comes along! Go try it out, u got nothing to lose. It happens to me and i feel like the most fortunate person in the whole world even at a point of time i hv nothing! Start now, my fren, u'll overcome it and love it. Good luck! Cheers.

Answer 4

Take it easy . Your toooo young to be depresed over these little things . I was the prettiest girl in college , I was the smartest among my friends and I got my PHD , but my friends who never graduated from highschool , never got any attraction in highschool are much more sucessful than me . They have more money , better housbands and better life than me . So it is not always perfect people who lead the world .You don't have to be genius to have money and attract people . If you dont graduate this year , just try it next year . About your girl , there are plenty of fish in the pond .You'll find someone who will love you for who you are . Don't worry about losing your friends , try to figure out why you think you are losing them and try to make some new ones too . Believe me a good personality is the most important thing that women and friends are looking for . My best boyfriend was a highschool grad . About family problems , all of us have family problems , I haven't talk to my family for the past 10 years and I really don't care , I just got use to it . Just believe in yourself and don't ever think you are less than others.I am sure you are unique in your own way ... take it easy hun

Answer 5

you only have pressure that you put on yourself. dont get in a hurry to start your life. graduating from high school or college it happens when it happens. when you graduate that is when your real life starts. dont rush it. you cant make some love you. i have tried. i find that it is best to get back into the saddle asap. and as far friends they come and go. the more secrets they know the more they can hurt you. friends will sell you down the river if you let them. you cant change your family jsut embrace them for who they are. listen chin up up and chest out. it will get better and it will pass. there are always new friends. and the best part is there is always new women with new tricks. relax and breath deep.

Answer 6

hi i opened your q b/c it seems like the q i asked yestwerday and i thoughte it might help for me as well. let me tell you i graduated from college las t least an my deppression dated back since last year the pressure is obvious but since you started the learninng thing b/c you belived you needed it you have to be the player @it and make the good out of it think of the time the energy the money that u spent on it so what ever the case is don't let thinghs get it in your way later you might regaret when things pass. for the girl you like it is better to talk things thorough and if you need to talk to e mail me @[e-mail] good luck

Answer 7

1.you will graduate if you try 2.keep playing soccer 3.screw her theres plenty more out there (trust me)4.in time you will realize that youre family wiil be the only people that really get you ,so love them alot regardless of how they act5.the friends you have now wont matter much to you in 5 years6.quit being hard on yourself and kick life in its a$$

Answer 8

Things will turn around. Trust me, Ive been through the same thing.
Life is an adventure,and it wouldn't be so if it all was great. The downs make the ups feel so much better. Hang in there.
Best wishes.

Answer 9

Go to a therapist and get some help. I hope that your life takes a 360 turn around.

Answer 10

I guess you should just try to find something to look forward to each day. sometimes i feel this way but i always know there is someone that is going to be happy to see me or something important that i want to accomplish in life that keeps me a little happier.