Have any of you had parents who allowed your boy or girl friend spend th enight with you while you were under 18. My daughter's mother and I spent my nights together after she was born (we were 13 when she was born). Since I moved out on my own when I was 16 I have had many girls stay with me (but nothing ever really happened as sex was rare for me). I am now engaged to my 17 year old girlfriend who I live with (I am also 17). Anyway has anyone else had parents who allowed boy or girl friend to stay over.
2007-02-22 14:49:31 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Not at 13 that is too early for the opposite sex to be sleeping together. Isn't that a bit obvious by what happened to you. 13 is too too young to have a baby. Sorry just my opinion.
2007-02-22 14:57:54 · answer #1 · answered by Kellie M 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
god no! at 13..that the exact reason why cus I could you know end up with a kid..they would never allow that and I'm 17.
when i was 16 i spent a lot of nights at my bfs place since he was older(21) and i was fighting with my parents at the time, that only made it worse though they weren't very happy with it.
No offense but if your for real i think your parents are a little crazy if they let her stay over(that's if it was before the baby was born other wise i understand)
maybe if you had been older and they let her stay that would have been alright from my prospective. cus at 13 most kids are just starting dating not having sex
2007-02-22 16:42:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I will be 18 in October and have been staying the nights with my boyfriend since I have been 15. My parents thought I was at my friends house until I told them the truth. They were mad but had to except it. They knew they could not stop me. I still have the same boyfriend and were in love!!! What do you think about my story?
2007-02-23 03:12:42 · answer #3 · answered by Porter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I moved out at 17. I was also living with my fiance at the time. We are now married with two children. When I was 15 my parents allowed me to have co-ed sleepovers. Neither I nor the girls that stayed over ever slept with any of the guys that stayed over. We (the girls) slept in my room and the guys in my brothers.
2007-02-22 17:58:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no way my parents were very strict. i could not really date until i was like 17. yep hard to believe but it is true. so noway did they allow that. i can honestly say i am 31 now and have never been to parties besides bdays parties, never been to any club, never smoked, drank alchol, or did drugs so i really dont blame my parents cause i have turned out great. i hope my 7 & 8 yr olds will be as well.
2007-02-22 18:27:48 · answer #5 · answered by willwork4u2000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
gold coast night life isnt really equipped for under 18's. You might struggle to find somewhere fun :(
2016-05-24 00:59:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When i was under 18, yes. my mom would let me stay the night with my boyfriend(we dated when i was 16-17 he was 20 - 21) she told my dad i was at a girlfriends house all the time.she trusted me. i thought - heymy mom rocks!they would definatly not have let him stay over at their house though, and i will be the same way, but not at 13. you are a baby at 13, not that 16 is THAT much better,but it was because i had at least some maturity. but hey i didnt have a baby then either, because we used protection(my mom was VERY up front about that).I cant even believe that a 13 year olds have babies, they really are babies and you dont understand that until you grow up. its very sad.ignorance sucks, and everyone especially the pre-teen/teenage group should be more thouroughly informed,
2007-02-22 15:23:24 · answer #7 · answered by ♥mama♥ 6 · 0⤊ 4⤋
i were 16 when i were first allowed to stay at my boyfriends. your stil a kid at 13 wheres your teenage life going now. condoms are made to be used
2007-02-23 02:31:57 · answer #8 · answered by pennietrudie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom let me travel when I was younger with my boyfriend's family to his basketball games.. sure we were in a hotel room but it was with his grandparents and sister. I DID end up pregnant but that didn't happen while we were staying in the same room over night.
2007-02-22 14:56:24 · answer #9 · answered by momofthreemiracles 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well not my mother but back when I was younger my boyfriends mother let me live there with them and I was under 18.
2007-02-22 14:55:38 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋