plus..i felt like i had a minor yeast infect for like 3 days afterward. is this all normal? i know dirty fingers are bad..but what am i really risking but leting him put them in me?
2007-02-22 14:40:21 · 13 answers · asked by thunderbolt 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
First of all getting fingered isn't bad its part of natural foreplay or even during sex. As far as the dirty fingers, well I would make him wash his hands before hand so you have nothing to worry about. Now as for it hurting, well that could be caused by a multiple things, 1 you weren't relaxed enough, 2 your very small and his fingers are big, 3 you weren't wet enough, consider using lube like a KY type. And they only thing your risking is your total enjoyment of what he is doing.
2007-02-22 14:48:17 · answer #1 · answered by jcmc3056 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, this is not normal. Was it your first time? Was he rough? Perhaps his nails were too long. It is possible that he could have made minor scratches that could have allowed germs or bacteria in.
I think you will be fine if you clean yourself well and watch for any signs of infections; persistent pain, drainage. If you see any of those, go to the doctor.
As far as the dirty fingers go....good hygiene is always preferred.
2007-02-22 14:49:42 · answer #2 · answered by Cherry 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
whoaaa sound like an infection, it is not normal at all. dirty fingers are not bad they're dangerous, look what happened to you. There's plenty of risk, hey if a finger caused this, its enough to make him wash his hands and question what and where his hands have been!
2007-02-22 14:45:06 · answer #3 · answered by Rich M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well for one he could have scratched you inside which would open you up for infection and dirty hands carry germs so you could have a yeast infection or just have been irritated.
2007-02-22 14:46:22 · answer #4 · answered by shortone22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thunder,
Anyone you're with, or consider being with, should have the common decency to have clean hands, scrub under their grubby nails and at least file the jagged edges so that he/she does not damage sensitive tissue around the vulva and inside the vagina.
If you did not find the experience pleasurable, and find yourself with an infection on top of that...I would consider looking for a new playmate.
2007-02-22 14:47:53 · answer #5 · answered by Wolfsburgh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is normal depending on your age. The younger you are you will notice sex is going to hurt. If you use KY Jelly this will help with some discomfort as you are probably not wet enough. I would recommend you visit with your OBGYN. You could also have a tilted uterous which is normal for a lot of females. If you are experimenting with masterbation you will soon be discovering more. You may also notice vaginal bleeding and/ or spotting. Your are stretching your vagina and it isn't use to this. Over time with a special individual you will begin to enjoy sex.
Make sure you are ready. Don't be pressured by some guy who "loves" you . THINK about it before having sex! Your first time you don't want to be in the back of a backseat hiding from your parents. Your body is growing and your hormones are racing. LISTEN TO YOUR HEART NOT YOUR HORMONES.
They will get you into trouble. If you are ever in a situation and feel uncomfortable you CAN tell them to stop! Once you say NO that is your choice! It is your body take care of it!
PLEASE be sure to read up and make sure you are aware of all the risks. When you become more sexually active you can get an STD as you have learned in Health Class. AND PLEASE YES you can get pregnant the first time you have sex and you can get pregnant if you are on your period or after your period. You will hear rumors in High School. Be sure to talk to the school nurse as she can help you. Call your local teen line... or contact the nearest Planned Parenthood. You can do this anonmously. I would recommend you start thinking about Birth Control. As the pill can take up to one year to get into your system. Also they do have a shot that is every six months if you are not good at remembering to take something. As I said you should visit with your OBGYN earlier. If you are worried about your parents flipping out. Tell them you want to regulate your period. Tell them you are having a lot of cramps or something.. HONESTY is the best with your parents but I don't know your situation. I am assuming your afraid to talk to your parents. As I know I was. You don't have to be pregnant to talk to them! PLAN!! Please make sure you have condoms. LATEX! I realize you asked about masturbation but soon you are going to be experimenting more and I would rather you understand what your body is going to go through and all of your sources.
Talk to your mother or older sister or an aunt SOMEONE tell them that you want to take responsibility and you want to protect yourself!
Think about this.
If you have sex with one guy... and that one guy had sex with 2 girls well say one of those girls had sex with 6 guys and that guy had 20 girls you see how quickly these numbers add up.
1 out of 6 will have a Sexually Transmitted Disease
Most guys the first time they have sex... They can't hold an errection meaning BAD first time experiement. Is that what you want your first time to be a memory of? WAIT!!!!
2007-02-22 15:08:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
how many fingers did he put in? I gues start from 1 just like counting numbers but dont use both hands...thats too many.
2007-02-22 14:47:58 · answer #7 · answered by art_wur 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first time should hurt but once you get fingered a couple of times it stops hurting, ur risking lots
2007-02-22 14:42:19 · answer #8 · answered by kingajs 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ah, just an minor infection... But I dont like it at all either i dont know what it is but it just dont feel right at all, so ur not alone!
2007-02-22 14:44:54 · answer #9 · answered by ohio_gurl042 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah that doesn't sound good make sure he washes his hands!!! and make sure he doesn't have any hang-nails! thats VERY BAD too!
2007-02-22 14:44:04 · answer #10 · answered by *little one* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋