If a husband has an orgasm before his wife..What does this say about him.
2007-02-22 14:29:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This says about him that his wife is so hot he cannot control himself.
He sees her naked or barely touch her soft skin and boom he goes because she is so amazing she has that effect on him.
Men are very often horny before the actual sexual act (and really all day long) while women need to get into the mood with romance, candles and attention and gifts and whatever…
Usually, a man, always ready (he does not need romance, attention, candles or whatever) , should work on his wife to make her also ready and when she is, jump in to get to the finish line together.
The orgasm a husband has before his wife has one, should really be taken as a compliment by the wife. In fact, that orgasm of the husband is really an appetizer for him. A man cannot wait for a woman but a woman can wait for a man. That means, the husband has that orgasm to get rid of excess horniness. Then, the woman steps in and in no time, the man will feel like going at it again, in synchronization with her wife needs.
Some people call it a premature ejaculation which is really a misconception. What the man really experience is the “get rid of the excess horniness so I can get in synch with my wife” syndrome.
Once the man had that first orgasm (before his wife) then he is free of the masculine horniness and can be in synch with his wife and together, they will reach ecstasy, in unison.
Always have your husband get rid of that pesky horniness before you really get down to business.
2007-02-23 18:19:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a normal thing.... Try different ways to keep him going longer.... & Always be open with him about ways that will help you get off too... If he is done & your not do some foreplay afterwords to help you have an orgasm.... I'm sure he would go for that.... Put some spice into your sex life... It is fun...
2007-02-22 14:51:18 · answer #2 · answered by RazorAng40 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he orgasms before his wife on a regular basis and doesnt finish her off i would say he is a very selfish lover. If he cant control it or help doing it so soon there are things he can do to fix this problem and he should see a dr asap. if it only happens on occassion it can be forgiven, if he is prepared to do the righty by her.
2007-02-22 14:44:56 · answer #3 · answered by suzi Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has an orgasm before his wife all the time: he's selfish and uncaring. Although you might not be into it and just can't....
If he does it a few times: He's a MAN! It happens. Don't look into it. :)
2007-02-22 14:46:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can "mean" a lot of things I guess. In the scheme of things who cares as long as everyone is satisfied!! Women take a lot more "work" to orgasm than a man.
2007-02-22 14:43:49 · answer #5 · answered by zoomom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Says he had an orgasm first.
Believe it or not, most mean really CANT control it.
He can talk to his Dr, however. Several drugs are on teh market that make it more controlable.
2007-02-22 15:48:03 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer Anne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women don't get orgasms during sex. If he knows you didn't get there during sex, does he do anything about it?
2007-02-22 15:50:46 · answer #7 · answered by Moon Crystal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That he was really turned on. As long as the wife still came prolly not really a big deal.
2007-02-22 14:42:46 · answer #8 · answered by BED 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. Why are you analyzing this? That is the thing you should be concerned with.
2007-02-22 14:41:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to get more experience.
2007-02-22 15:55:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋