Married women, if you had to name one thing that a married man do?

Question

to enusre that he takes care of his wife's needs, so she will not be tempted to go elsewhere----what would it be? Be honest.

The first four answers are very nice. Thanks.

So, what you ladies are saying is that my dingaling does not have to be 10 inches. lol

Dang....BoomBoom had to go ruin it and be all critical and what not.

Answer 1

Be attentive, complimentary and make her feel like she's the most beautiful woman on earth at all times.

Answer 2

Listen to her and spend time with her. Go out of your way to do special things for her. A wife's needs is a help in the kitchen, bring home flowers, helping around the house (INSIDE). Clean the toilet once in a while. So often women, specially if they work feel overwhelmed because it is ingrained they are the house keepers and on top of a job and kids. It can get overwhelming and if a husband is not there to listen and show her support, then they become pray to others who know it all to well. Anyone who shows kindness and listens to them will become a special part of their life. So if you truly love your wife, listen listen listen and don't be so quick to have an answer on how to fix something. Most of the time we just want someone to listen and say I love you.

Answer 3

No matter how great and attentive you are, if a person wants to stray there isn't anything you can do about it, build trust and be the best husband you can be, so if anything does happen (God forbid) you won't feel like it had anything to do with you as a husband. And you will know that you did everything you could and it was your wife that has issues.

Answer 4

The little things he does for me every day is what works the most. I love him for it:) He is a great husband and a romantic at heart and he spoils me rotten! Why would i even want to go or be tempted to? No guy could even come close to comparing what i have in my wonderful husband and marriage.

Answer 5

First of all you should always treat her with respect and as a equal. You should try to make her feel special, loved, and appreciated. Communicate with her and let her tell you her feelings without judging her. Allow her to be the women she wants to be. It is not all about sex like it is for a guy. Women love to be complimented and told that they are loved. We also like romance and little things that help us around the house. When you do all of these things then it should fall into place.

Answer 6

I think that you could be the best husband/wife in the world and if your mate is not happy and content with themselves, they will cheat. In an relationship it is always important to be yourself and to always treat your mate with respect. But I do not sit around wondering what could prevent my husband from cheating, because ultimately it is his decision and not mine. I just try to be the best mate I can be without going overboard.

Answer 7

Pay attention to her. What songs does she hum while cleaning...what brings a smile to her face when no one seems to be watching....ask her how her day was and then actually listen to her answer....if she puts a song on the cd and says "this is my song to you" DO NOT turn on the tv and certainly don't look past her to view the tv as she tries to sing it to you.

Answer 8

Cherish her - look into her eyes while she's speaking, consider her wants and needs in every situation, and never let her forget that she's all you'll ever want or need. If you do all these things, no sane woman would wander off!

I wish you well!

Answer 9

Ask her what she wants and needs and then give it to her. Quite simple. I bet the answer is something emotional and I bet most woman dont stray due to sex, lack of, or the repertoire.



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Answer 10

I would have to say how he shows me appreciation - you said one thing but it is always going to take more than just one thing. I think that would be the most important thing to me though.