i want to die really soon , can you tell me how i am really suffering ?

Question

i am under 18 and i stupider than a doneky

Answer 1

Really you want to die? Because there isn't anything worth living for? How old are you, anyways? I mean.. how much could you have experienced in the world to know that its not worth living in? Have you ever made a baby laugh, or played with a puppy? Picked flowers on a beautiful day? Or even had a white chocolate mocha from starbucks?? I went through stages where i thought everyone and everything would be better off with out me there, and then i realized that there is always someone out there that loves you.. even if you don't think so. Go talk to a counselor, you need to get your feelings out, i think. Please don't do anything rash.. and life is too good to give up.

Answer 2

Sometimes life gets you down and you may want to feel the only way out is to end it all.
Thats normal.

I dont know what youre personal circumstance is, but when in doubt, and when life isnt treating you well, then best is to try focusing on those that are worse off then you.

If you dont care about your own life, why not focus on those that dont have a chance. Those that dont have access to a computer. those that dont even have a warm bed to sleep in, or food in their stomach.

If not the homeless, then all those third world children that can use help.

Perhaps that will show you it could be worse, and help you appreciate what you do have, and what you can be grateful for.

I dont know about you, but everyday I wake up I see as a gift. A gift that has infinite possibilities.

A few examples would be to start a homeless drive?
Collect cans and give the proceeds to the 3rd world homeless chidlren.
go to the dog pound, spend some time with a dog thats trapped and might be put to death
go to an elderly home. Listen to the many people that would love to talk to someone and have no one.
Make a few sandwhiches and go give them to the homeless, and talk to them.

Take some old clothes, or even go around the neighborhood to your friends, and see what you can gather for good will.

Tell someone thats been a good friend to you, or a family memeber thats helped you, how much they mean to you.

Look on the internet see what groups need volunteers.
Heck, do somethign for our troops who are fighting and sacrificing their life for this government that leads them astray.

Start a drive for them, write a letter for them, create a box for them.

Theres too much good things you can do for others if at thispoint you dont really care for yourself.

Answer 3

I feel you...maybe you are like me and a lot of other people who were created to reach out to others who are hurting, and when we are not, we don't see how much we are needed here.

Jesus did the suffering and does not want us to suffer, instead we are to give him our burdens and we are to serve others. You will really, really, really, enjoy being here when you discover your purpose, and you will be full of joy each time you are blessed to be a blessing to someone else. It sounds so weird, but it is the truth. None of us are happy when we are not doing what we are called to do. You, just like me and many others, just need to know what your purpose is...don't let anyone lie to you, including yourself, about not having a purpose.... you are called, you have a purpose, He is knocking and all you have to do is answer the door...and enjoy His promises. If you do not know our heavenly Father's promises for us, read the letter He wrote to us (the Bible).

Start by joining a local Christian Church and keep in mind the larger the Church the more ministries and the greater number of ministries, or maybe you might better enjoy the intimacy and pioneering spriit of a smaller church. Both are worthy. If you are shy ask Jesus to help you get there.

It is written: "We do not have because we do not ask", so ask your heavenly Father what he wants you to do. Start by telling Him you are sorry for the things you did wrong and the things you didn't do that you should have. He is kind and good and humble. He will never leave you nor forsake you and He alone knows how to give us joy unspeakable. He loves you more than you know and when you repent and ask Jesus into your heart to be your Lord, you will know what heavenly love really is-it is nothing like the world.- God's blessings come with no sorrows...you will have trials which are something separate from blessings, but he will give you all the grace you need...He is faithful and loving.

Staying and Enjoying....finally

Sista C
P.S.
My motto now is "Never give up-
Never!"

Answer 4

Don't do it, you have no idea how many people you will hurt. It's a permanant solution to a temporary problem. I've been through it too, and come very close to suceeding, and I hurt a hell of a lot of people. Now I am glad it didnt work. You should surround yourself with friends,a nd remember that no guy is worth it.
If you want to talk send me a message I'd be happy to help.

It also might help you to take a little vacation away from your stresses, check yourself into a hospital designed for that, you'd be surprised at how much better you feel when you get out.

Answer 5

i'm really honestly, not sure what you're asking, but, if you're talking about wanting to die with no sort of physical pain, or if there is unexplained physical pain, you might be depressed. It might be a good idea to talk to your family doctor about seeing a psychologist or a psychiatrist. A psychologist will be able to talk to you about what you are feeling, but a psychiatrist will be able to get you antidepressants as they are necessary. However, if you are under 18, it is unlikely they will be able to perscribe antidepressants because they CAN lead to more suicidal thoughts.
IF your question is about depression, see a doctor.
Regardless if it is or not, you should still see a doctor to see what could be a potential cause of the suffering and your want to die.

Answer 6

hey girl. sorry I can't tell you hoe you are really suffering.
I can assume you are currently not feeling so peachy though- and I wish I could help.

I lately came to the cunclusion that feelings change all the time.

I bet you feel there is no point of trying to live, to fix things, to make life intresting. but then- why make the effort to die.

you are younger than me in about a year, and somehow I still feel I can promise you, if you find something to live for, you will find it was worth living for it. sounds stupid right? but it isn't.

you think you can't find something to live for?
look again. it's right in front of you. I can't point it out for you because I don't know you.
but close your eyes, and imagine how you wish things were.
not what you wish wasn't.
but what you DO want.

imagine it clearly, imagine you are living that.
and decide you are going to reach it- at least some.

remember a moment you were happy- and decide to feel that again.
even if it is hard to remember a happy moment because it makes you sad you don't feel that way anymore...

I hope I helped in ANY way...

feel free to Email me.

best thing for you to do I think is just talk to anyone, and be honest, and think what you would like, what you need, and how to get it

all the best

Answer 7

I can tell you are really suffering.
I researched about life and death for a while.I thought it's strange that i am here but i don't know who created me nor how i was created. I felt I had to provide answers to my own questions because out there people are busy about their own stuff .
I then researched and what i found out is: nobody dies, our body decompose and transforms to another form...becomes dust, releases water etc. I felt a great deal of freedom, freedom from death...the fact is, the soul is who we are. We forgot that
we are made according to the image of our creator. We are so
aware of what we can see, we call it reality. So when things go wrong around us, we think it is hopeless. There is a deeper reality. The important things we miss because we can't see them. In the atomic level, the atom is composed of 99.9% vacuum.Contrary to our belief, that vacuum is dense and is full of information (Nassim Haramein,Crossing the Event Horizon" ), the Intelligence that made us made sure we can co-create our existence with Him. Our genes does not pre-determine what happens to us because in an experiment done by Bruce Lipton, Phd, in his article from the Light of Consciousness Magazine, the article entitled, "The wisdom of your cells", "...I would start off with my same muscle precursors but in an altered environment they would actually start to form bone cells, i i further altered the conditions, those cells become adipose or fat cells.While everyone of the cells was genetically identical, the fate of the cells was controlled by the environment in which i placed them..."
"...the cell was a chip...the nucleusis the hard disk with the program...the genes are the programs, the cell membrane is the info-processing computer chip..the cell genes are the hard drive with all potentials. What is expressed by the computer was determined by the information that I, as the environment, was typing into the keyboard....We perceive the environment and adjust our biology, but not all our perceptions are accurate. If we are labouring under misperceptions, then those misperceptions provide for a mis-adjustment of our biology...We can control our lives by controlling our perceptions...In the new biology, Evolution is based on cooperation..." This is what Bruce is saying.
We have the power to alter our perceptions to become accurate perceptions. I am saying that inside the cells, it is dividing continously, but we are not aware of it because we can't see it. If you become aware of what is happening in the sub atomic level, you will feel that there is just this Intelligence wanting to create and loving creation as it continually creates, there is just this flow of love, I wish you will see this, then, there is no way you will ever feel down again, this is the "real" reality!We can co-create our reality to align with this reality, a "real" reality of happiness, infinite happiness...

Janaki

Janaki

Answer 8

Most likely you are not stupid. You may feel that way right now for some reason we can not understand, but most likely just because you are able to write on this site, proves to me that you are not stupid. Now you might want to be getting some attention and believe me.....at times that is very important, but saying you are stupid is not a smart thing to do, but isn't stupid anyway. Its got my attention anyways.

I just want to say, there are times in all our lives that we want to die sooner than later. As I am a mother and have lived a great deal longer than you I can assure there have been times when I have thought....what on earth is the purpose. But then as the feelings pass and I realized that it was only a moment in time, then I was able to look back and say.........thank God I did not get my wish.

Now in closing, I just want to say this to you....be very careful, very very careful what you wish for, for you may get it and then there is no turning back. Take it easy, life is abundant with blessings and joys to come.

Answer 9

Yahoo answers is not the forum to get advice that will effect your will to live. If you are having dark thoughts about wanting to end it, you need to rationalisze those thoughts and talk to someone. Confind in your mother, a friend, a teacher, anyone who you think you can trust.

You need to think about the consequences, dying is not a temporary solution. it is forever, and you have loved ones who will suffer through this.

I wish you luck, and urge you to open up to someone. Life isn't as bad as you imagine.

Answer 10

Depression