I wished I would have known she was going to yell as much as she does. I'm beginning to wonder if she forgot how to talk.
2007-02-22 14:08:55 · 13 answers · asked by Nina 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If i had known i would be second on his list of importance; himself being first!
2007-02-22 15:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wished I had known that he was an emotional manic depressant. It's caused pure misery in my marriage. I've left him before and stayed seperated for a year and a 1/2. I came back because he started counseling and showed tremendous changes. I wasn't home a good month and the same thing started. It's very depressing because I love him but I'm ready to live again without the dark cloud and emotional roller coaster.
2007-02-22 22:18:35 · answer #2 · answered by QuEEn B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish that I would have known that my husband talks too much. He started talking about alot of the other women he had before we were married. Why did he think that I had to know about women that he had sex with? Some things are better left unsaid. I wish that I did not know about any of them. This started right after we were first married.
2007-02-22 22:50:18 · answer #3 · answered by Nancy M. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That he was so stupid that he can barely read. Do you think this is made up? It's not. I got married at 40 to a man who was 41. I knew that he had a hard time reading, but after a few months of marriage, he told me that he could barely read.
He somehow thinks that he should rule the household, but when he can barely read, I feel like I'm married to a total idiot. I just assumed all adults could read.
But, when we get in a fight, everything is his, everything makes him mr. macho man. When I remind him that he can't even read he gets pissed as hell and gets violent. A true man he is, don't you think?
I love him, but sometimes, I feel like I'm married to a total idiot. It's not an easy thing to live with.
2007-02-23 01:06:07 · answer #4 · answered by Karen H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I have to narrow it down to just ONE thing, I would have to say I would have liked to know that he was just "putting his best face forward" because if I saw the real him I'd never give him a second look. He was the perfect gentleman and person until we moved in together. Now he has no manners, watches way to much tv, and he spends money at the speed of light.
2007-02-22 22:20:53 · answer #5 · answered by j05gemini 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish i had know that she had never been faithful to anyone she had been with. After we separated i even found out the she cheated on her first husband 1 week after they were married. Some times you never know till its to late. So all we can do pray we make the right choices in life.
2007-02-23 00:29:41 · answer #6 · answered by nclonewolf1962 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wish i had known that he was a cheater way back when, wish i had known how he treated his 3 other wives, wish i had known how deceitful he was.about a few days before he left to live with the other woman, i was having this conversation with my ex's sister whre i told her atleast he was no cheater, that he had told me he never cheated on anyone, she began to laugh, but did not elaborate or go into it.
2007-02-23 07:00:29 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That he gets gas. A LOT. He never farted while we were dating and the ink was barely dry on our marriage certificate when the gas attacks began.
2007-02-23 00:27:59 · answer #8 · answered by §Sally§ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wish i would of known who my mother in law was all about.
2007-02-22 22:48:07 · answer #9 · answered by bubba 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wasnt my spouse, but we lived together for a year..........
That he snored....REALLY LOUD!!! Honest.....i had to wear earplugs every night. They made my ears sore, but it was better than not getting any sleep.
2007-02-22 22:13:37 · answer #10 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋