How can I get him to leave me alone forever!?

Question

He's a mean-hearted person, mean to everybody, and so mean to me. He even laughs at me and yells at me during my practice sometimes (not his practice, MY practice). He talks to me sometimes and he can tell I don't want anything to do with him cuz I've made it pretty clear. How can I get him to finally leave me alone after about 3 1/2 years? he doesn't seem to get the message! thanks!

Answer 1

That's a hard position to be in and wish you the best in your dealing with it. Just remember that you are "you" and you are important. You have feelings that are important and don't deserve to have them trampled. Be strong and follow your heart.
Just go an tell him directly ...what you feel.

Answer 2

omg i was in the same boat. 3 years. That's right: 3 YEARS. it all started because he was new and dorky and i was the nice girl who was the only one who ever talked to him. My friends and i made it totally akward. next time you see him (try it at lunch) grab your friend and say, "Hey susie, do you have a tampon? I totally forgot mine at home." then go on and on about the brand of tampons, the comfort of tampons, how thankful you are for tampons, etc etc etc. garrunteed to work. You might want to get your friend in on this or she'll think you are a freak. IF that doesn't work, just come right out and say (gently) something along the lines of "You're really nice and sweet but I really feel uncomfortable with this friendship." Good luck!

Answer 3

well..i guess he likes you but he doesn't know how to express it..so probably because of that he did not leave you alone even though you have made it clear to him..i think you should give him a chance to get close to you..and maybe there will be chemistry between the two of you..who knows? unless u give him a chance..all the best to you.. :)

Answer 4

First off have you verbally told him that you want nothing to do with him? You have to let someone in authority know that he is harassing you. And each time take it a step further if nothing is done. Start with your parents, let them know, then your coach and so on and so on. Also let one of your friends know who you have told just so you have backup in case you have to go to the police. I have been through it and I wish you good luck.

Answer 5

ignore him, dont let him get to u. anytime hes there, make him feel like a nobody and act like u didnt even hear what he said or if hes even there. and yes, i would suggest a restraining order too

Answer 6

LOL, it feels as if he's the five yr. old pulling ur pigtails in pre-k. maybe he kinda likes you and doesnt kno how to show it appropiately..? I dunno, but if he did liked you he wouldnt be that much of a ***** that he sounds like, LOL. So yea, get a restrainin order or have a gang jump him ;)

hope everything turns out alright

Answer 7

Refer to the phrase....Have you heard of a restraining order???? Leave me alone NOW & FOREVER. No ifs ands or buts!

Answer 8

F**k the dude up! Punch him, deck him, throw something at him, hit him in his family jewels. Then, he'll finally get the message.

Answer 9

you must tell him that you don't want to be disturb..!it the best way..you also can tell him you hav another boyfriend..its enough..it's also happened to me when my girlfriend say like that.i leave him...but she still in my mind..this is my experience.

Answer 10

RESTRAINING ORDER! GO GET ONE ASAP! YOU NEED TO SPEAK TO SOMEONE ABOUT THE RESTRAINING ORDER NOW. BEFORE IT ESCALATES TO SOMETHING WORSE. I AM NOT KIDDING. GOOD LUCK.