How to i tell my wife i am sorry?

Question

i hit her yesterday. we had an arguement. i got mad and punched her in the stomach. now i fell very bad. =(

Answer 1

u need therapy

Answer 2

Watch it man!

I don't think you should be in any relationship if you are not able to control your temper. I hope this is the first time it ever happened because if its not, you are defintely unforgiveable!

Dude, feeling bad is not enough. You should feel very guilty and ashamed of your action because a real man will never lay a hand on a lady irregardless of who she might be. How could you ever hurt the one person you love and marry?

Right now, she definitely will feel a great resentment and fear toward you. She might even be afraid to be in the same room as you....

Maybe you should make dinner for her...then have a heart to heart talk with her...explain to her what went wrong and why...tell her how sorry you are...ask her what you can do to make things better again...AND promise that this will NEVER happen EVER again.

Note :
1stly : Stick to your promise, boy
2ndly : Don't get into another quarrel if she ever anger you during the conversation. Let her take it out on you. Be a man and take the beatings and insults. You deserve it.
3rdly : Kiss her on the area you punched her...

Enrol in anger management class if you fear it might happen again...

ps : I hope I'm right in giving you those advise because I believe you will not let this happen again. Best of luck and be good.

Answer 3

First, I feel sorry for all the nasty comments and brickbats that you are getting from the others right now. The fact that you are asking for help is a sign of remorse in which others should recognise and offer help.

I am been married for 21 years now and have many tiffs with my wife before and we always make up. I have never strike my wife before no matter how angry I get because I know that it's wrong - a man should not strike his wife or for that matter any other woman.

Now that you have done it, try to make amends by apologising to her and tell her that you will not do it again. If she does not want to talk to you, write her a letter and tell her you are sorry. You may want to talk to her closest friend/sister and ask her friend to help to mediate and tell your wife how sorry you are.

I am sure when her anger simmers down (like you), she will still cherish the relationship and forgive you, so go try to win her back. Buying a present or bringing her for a holiday may also be a good idea to make up.

If your problems with anger/violence persist, then go for an anger management course. It will help you to control your anger. To show your sincerity, you may ask your wife to go with you.

The following link on anger management may help also.

Good Luck.

Answer 4

Glad to hear you regret deeply what you've done.
Tell her sincerely, must be in person (not like some others suggested with a note on her pillow), that you deeply regret what you've done, something like, you temporarily lost your mind and you want to seek counselling/help so it never happens again. You could accompany your sincere deep apology with some romantic gesture that you know she likes, could be flowers. Maybe jokingly say to her, she may give you one punch in the stomach or anywhere she likes (of course, hopefully she won't really take up the offer)! Also, make sure you remind her that you love her verrrrrrrry much and would never want to hurt her intentionally.

Let us know how you go with your wife. I hope she forgives you, and especially that you may never hit her again, ever!

Answer 5

Even if this is the first time you have done it, it certainly will be your last if you are sane that is... There should be NO reason as to hitting your spouse, i been through it with my ex, and there is NO exuse, For one the way to tell her your sorry, is by proving to her you need help and making her see you a SERIOUS about Never doing it again, by finding other ways to let your anger out, or Just GO get help!

Answer 6

WOW, that is going to be a hard one. I am so against that........I could not even tell you where to start. Maybe the best way would to go talk with a doctor and get some help for your anger management....that would be the worlds best thing....even if this is the first time, you should still seek help and I think that would be the best I'm sorry she could hear.
Good luck and hope that life gets better for both of you.

Answer 7

If you could tell us you could tell her,and get a punching bag and hit that instead of your wife,or take a walk and think about what you were about to do and think about the consequences it will make a big difference in your life.

Answer 8

SORRY IS NOT ENOUGH AND NO DAMN NOTE OF ALL HER GOOD QUALITIES ARE GOING TO HELP EITHER... FIRST OF ALL U ALREADY KNOW IT WAS WRONG> YOU NEED TO YES APOLIGIZE, BUT YOU NEED TO SERIOUSLY DO SOME EXPLAINING AND LET HER KNOW HOW HITTING HER HAS MADE YOU FEEL. BUT NO APOLOGY WILL HELP IT IS UP TO UR WIFE TO FORGIVE U. LASTLY, FROM A MARRIED WOMAN> U HAVE REALLY MADE HER ESTEEM GO DOWN AND I BET MONEY SHE IS CONFUSED AND SO HURT WONDERING HOW THE MAN SHE LOVES AND MARRIED COULD DO THIS TO HER? COME ON MAN'

Answer 9

YOU SHOULD NEVER HIT YOUR WIFE!
Apologize with total sincerity. It does not matter who started the argument.
If she asks you to do something, do it without question or complaint.
Swear to God that you will never to it again! She is your wife and you are supposed to protect her. You can't take it back, but you can start making up for it.
If she wants nothing to do with you again, then that is her right.
You messed up. If you lose her forever, then it is your own fault.

Answer 10

By letting her take a bat and beat the hell out of you...YOU DEVIL! A man, not a male (it's a difference) would never raise his hands in anger to his wife or any other woman. You should feel bad and hurt after the bat beating. :-)

Answer 11

Nothing you say will fix what you did. NO matter what kind of fight or argument you have with any woman, YOU NEVER LAY A HAND ON HER TO HARM HER !! You have some major issues pal and I hope for her sake that she leaves your sorry piece of sh*t a*s and presses charges on you for assault you scumbag !!