My boyfriend who is currently incarcerated might do about a year. He has been in there for about 6 months now. I am not able to assit him with money because I am in the struggle right now. One of his ex-flings which was a call girl ( they didnt do anything she just gave him oral) and now says she works IN MACY"S... wrote him a letter seeing how he was doing-because word on the street is that he was currently locked up and the details were already out there. Lady who is 43 years old-is ok looking--she has a lot of money-shes lonley-no children no family except her mom and dad who are loaded. He asked me before he did anything and asked her for some help. She has given him everything that he asked for and so much more. I approved in the beginnning but I feel like crap now that another lady is taking care of my man. What should I DO??
2007-02-22 13:46:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You should get some self respect and leave him behind. Being in jail doesn't earn him any brownie points, and neither does sponging off of others.
Not someone I'd waste my time with.
2007-02-22 13:53:14 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can bet your bottom dollar this is going to cause problems in your relationship. The first thing he's going to say is ....You said I could ask her for help. Right there you hung yourself. Never Ever let another woman do for your man what You are suppose to do. Meaning take care of him. Now I know that you may be saying this is different I didn't have the money but what about his parents? Not another woman. Think about it and learn from it.
2007-02-22 22:05:33 · answer #2 · answered by reddchilds 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think it's OK for her to help him out I suspect you are losing interest in him.
Why else would you do it.
Is there a chance for them to get together when he gets out
If not why deceive her? She hasn't dceived you has she?
His parents should be helping him out and not you anyway.
2007-02-22 21:50:56 · answer #3 · answered by Johnny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him and move on get a free man who doesn't rely on hookers to get him money.
2007-02-22 21:48:53 · answer #4 · answered by Fletcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell NO! the only person that needs to support your boyfriend is you, so don't let any other girl support your boyfriend.
2007-02-22 21:52:09 · answer #5 · answered by Mexican Gangsta 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah sure
2007-02-22 21:48:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her the big K.O.!!!!
2007-02-22 21:50:52 · answer #7 · answered by confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋